The Dog Ate My Wallet

The Dog Ate My Wallet

Personal Finance in a World of Excuses

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Sunday Evening Post #78

027I know it’s Monday morning. I had been intending on posting last night when I got home, when I thought I was going to get home a little after 8pm. Instead, I got home after 10:30pm. Why you might ask? Because Seattle just had its coldest weekend of the winter, and my bio-diesel powered car sat outside in it. The fuel got all gummed up and wouldn’t start. C had to come pick me up from my friend’s house. Luckily, that friend then let us push the car into her garage to warm up, and we’re hoping to be able to go pick it up today. And yes, we will be taking said friend and her awesome husband out to eat for their hospitality and assistance.

That said, on to the goals.

 

Blogging

The purpose of these two goals is, yes, to grow my blogs, but also to support and highlight blogs and bloggers I enjoy. Just like I will be posting 2 new to me blogs every week in my round ups, the point here is to draw attention to blogs that others might not be familiar with. (Blog swaps will not count toward either of these goals.)

Write one guest post per month. I have one guest post planned (I just have to write it up), and am talking with someone else about another guest post. So hopefully something up soon.

Publish one guest post per month. Who wants to write a guest post for me?

 

Writing

Writing fiction is my side hustle, though I have yet to make any money from it. I’ve found that I devote much more time to the blogs than I do my fiction, though, because I am on a schedule. I feel accountable to my readers to get posts up when I say I will. And because I am a procrastinator, deadlines are a must for me. I get the energy I need to work on something from an impending deadline.

I am hoping to transfer the power of those two things- accountability and deadlines, to my fiction this year.

Submit at least one piece to a paying venue per month. I am very close to having a piece ready for submission. It needs maybe one or two more lines added and it should be golden. Plan to get that done this week.

Complete the first draft of my novella and start edits. For being away at a writing retreat this weekend, none of us got a lot of writing done. I worked mostly on the story I’m about to submit, but I did think about the novella and what the next scene needs to accomplish, so that’s something.

 

Finances

A lot of financial goals will actually end up as floating goals- ie they will be things I expect to complete well before the year is out. But I do have some long term financial goals that I think will work for year-long tracking.

Create and track a practice stock portfolio. Last week, I started the project and did the first post about it.

End the year “on budget” in the categories I’m tracking.

Category

On Budget

Month

Year

Groceries

Yes

Yes

House

Yes

Yes

Eating Out

Yes

Yes

Allowance – E

Yes

Yes

Allowance – C

Yes

Yes

 

Floating Goals

Refinance the house. Once C’s school schedule is figured out, we can set up an appointment with a broker.

Replace all the windows in the house. This won’t happen until spring or summer.

Publish new photography/flash fiction book. Plan to contact preferred artist again this week.

 

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What I’m Reading: I’m In Canada Edition

peacearchWhile you are reading this, I am enjoying a weekend away in fabulous Victoria, BC. I am off once again on a writers’ retreat- something I very much need if I’m going to accomplish my ambitious writing goals for the year.

But just because I’m not at home doesn’t mean I can’t share with you some great blog posts from this last week. Just know that anything written after noon on Thursday isn’t going to make the cut, since I’ll be writing fiction on Saturday, and prepping for the trip Friday morning before we hit the road.

 

Third Annual Pet Blogger Challenge from Amy at GoPetFriendly.com’s blog Take Paws. Amy is one of the originators of the challenge, so it’s extra fun to see what she has to say each year.

 

Oldies by Goodies: Welcome to the Happy Homeowner from The Happy Homeowner. If you want to get to know a pet blogger, this is the week- read their pet blogger challenge entry. But we don’t have anything like that in personal finance blogs. There are occasional memes that go around, but nothing annual. However, the Happy Homeowner decided to oblige those wanting to get to know her this week, anyway.

 

Adventures in Human Puppy Watching from Bunny at Tales and Tails.  Next week, we’ll have our own adventure in babysitting when we host a 4 year old overnight (not her first overnight with us). I loved reading about how it went when Bunny, blueberry, Kuster and Morgan had their chance to spend the night with Goldilocks.

 

He Said, She Said: Expensive Hobby or Male Bonding? from Planting Our Pennies. C and I definitely have our different hobbies. For him, it’s spending money on video games, both ones he can play now and ones he hopes to play someday (Kickstarter). But my hobbies are actually probably more expensive, considering I’m in Victoria, BC this weekend on a writers’ retreat. But what would you do if you didn’t like one of your significant other’s hobbies? Especially when it costs money?

 

Miracles Do Happen: Thor is Alive from Kenzo the Hovawart and Viva. Kenzo is my window to animal issues outside North America. Breed bans exist in some countries, including bans that apply even if your dog only looks like a banned breed. In this small miracle, the owner of a mixed breed dog in Denmark gets more time to fight his case in court before the police put down his pet.

 

Two New Savings Hacks for 2013 from Frugal Portland. We’re actually going to be babysitting because the toddler’s parents will be in Portland, but that’s not either here nor there (or perhaps it’s both). As the new year starts, everyone starts talking about ways to be more financially responsible or save more money. I know my facebook feed has been filled with the save $1 week one of the year, save $2 week 2….save $52 week 52 thing. I actually think it would work better if people did it in the opposite direction, so it was most difficult when they had the most motivation. But anyway, read here to find two keys to saving more in the new year that you actually have a chance of following through on.

 

Don’t Wait for One Perfect Day With Your Dog from Pamela at Something Wagging This Way Comes. I am a huge fan of Jon Katz’s books, and I know a lot of people really latched onto the idea of creating a perfect day for their dog as it nears the end of it’s life. It’s a great idea. An even better idea? Pamela’s of making perfect days happen now, and more than once. Because a perfect day with your dog isn’t just great for your dog, it’s great for you, too.

 

My Best Financial Advice – Take Control from Andrea at So Over This. Andrea started as a personal finance blogger, writing So Over Debt, but once she got out of debt and moved on, she realized that she didn’t want to limit herself to personal finance, so she re-branded and now writes about her life in general. However, when she does write a personal finance post, it’s pretty much guaranteed to be fabulous.

 

I joined the Pet Blogger Challenge blog hop as the 54th blog on the list. I decided that the way to find my “new to me” pet blog this week would be to go the blogger who joined at half my number- so the 27th blog on the list, and I think that was rather fortuitous. Two Greyhound Town is a blog about two Greyhounds (you’re surprised, right?) as they travel around the US in an RV.

Why is this fortuitous? Because the founders of the Pet Blogger Challenge are Take Paws from GoPetFriendly.com, which is about traveling around the US in an RV with 2 dogs, and Tales and Tails, which is very much about their 2 Greyhounds (and 2 Shepherds, but Bunny, the Greyhound, is much more likely to take over the keyboard).

This is Two Greyhound Town’s first time participating in the challenge, which means it’s a great way to get to know the blog.

 

And maybe it’s the week of fortuitous, or at least coincidental. The new to me personal finance blog this week is Wealth Note. And the most recent post (as of my writing this on Thursday) is called Smart Investors Read: The Future of Apple. Considering I just started my year long investigation of investing, and Apple was one of the companies I considered (though did not fake invest in due to the cost of their stock). But also, look at the picture that does with the post- it’s a dog, pooping an Apple. How perfect for me is that?

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5 Years of Financial History

What you’ve all been waiting for, my financial graphs updated with 2012 data…

budget_graphsOur income went down a little bit, but we expected that. It was the first year we had no unemployment. However, our spending went down even more than our income and our savings definitely went up.

For the first time ever, we spent literally $0 on what I called credit cards. Instead, every month the cards were paid off completely and the charges were placed in their appropriate category.

Groceries went up a little, but we had a 3rd person in the house for the whole year. Our eating out spending was the lowest it has been in 5 years, even if we did go over budget. Allowance and Misc spending was up, though the Misc is where the $3,000 we lent to my brother was categorized, and accounts for the majority of that spending.

Overall, I am very happy with our 2012 financial picture.

 

 

 

 

 

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The Stock Market Project- Getting Started

I have always wanted to invest in the stock market- it just seems cool. And I’ve loved the projects I’ve had to do in various classes where we got a ton of fake money to invest in stocks and then tracked our progress over the course of a semester. I did this both in high school senior government class and again in my MBA program. But both times, we were given a ridiculously high number – a number I will likely never see in my accounts – as our seed money. It was fun. It did teach me about how the stock market worked, but it never felt applicable to my life.

So this year, on DAMW, I want to try looking at something that might be a realistic investment strategy for me, as early as next year. Where will my money come from? From the budget, of course.

This year, we are planning on replacing all the windows in the house. We are budgeting $575/month to go into savings to cover that and other house related expenses. But replacing the windows is the last major thing we have planned for now. So once that’s paid for, I don’t think it’s unrealistic for me to divert some of that money into stocks.

Let’s say I manage to save $500 for starting money, and then each month, give myself an additional $200. ($175 would remain in the house budget. The other $200/month would be put into other savings goals.)

I could put that money in an IRA, but I’m not looking to start another retirement account. I want this to be available should we need it. So, stock market.

At the same time, I have no intentions of being a day trader, nor do I want (for now) to invest individually in companies and products I have never heard of. For the initial buy in, I’m ignoring penny stocks. Maybe as the year progresses and I feel more comfortable, I might take one month’s investment dollars and try the penny stocks, but that’s not for me. Instead, I’m looking at companies I know about, products I purchase, etc.

Here are the stocks I looked at today, with prices from around 4:30pm EST (so a little before the US markets closed).

Stock Price Symbol Exchange
Chipotle

297.76

CMG NYSE
Jack in the Box

28.73

JBX NASDAQ
Coke

37.04

KO NYSE
Apple

525.31

AAPL NASDAQ
Lenovo

19.22

LNVGY NASDAQ
Asus

325.00

  Taiwan
EA

13.77

EA NASDAQ
Barnes & Noble

13.40

BKS NYSE
Amazon

266.38

AMZN NASDAQ
Google

733.30

gppg NASDAQ
Union Pacific

130.18

unp nyse
Zipcar

12.16

ZIP NASDAQ
PetsMart

68.03

PETM NASDAQ

 

Given that I was only giving myself $500 to start, I decided not to invest in any company with a price over $50. I also decided I wanted to have at least a little diversity- at least 4 different stocks to start, and to be able to buy at least 5 shares of each. It’s not much, but it’s a start.

The other thing I did was look at costs. For now, I’m going with e*trade. I don’t think they are the best deal I can get (I actually think my CostCo executive membership gets me a much better deal), but they are the biggest and most recognizable name out there. (As the year goes on, I’ll investigate other options, so that when I do start investing, I will have the best deal for me.)

E*trade charges $9.99 for each transaction (less if I make a ton of transactions, but I’m not going to). I thought about paying for the separately from my seed money, but decided that if I was going to put limits on myself, I should hold to them. My $500 seed money has to include the fees.

Because of the limits I set on myself, I decided that for now, both Jack in the Box and Coca-Cola are still too expensive for me. It’s very likely I will devote an entire month’s money to one or both later on, but they weren’t going to be part of my initial investment.

That means my very small initial portfolio will look like this:

Stock Initial Price Shares Initial Value
Lenovo      19.22

5

     96.10
EA      13.77

9

    123.93
Barnes & Noble      13.40

9

    120.60
Zipcar      12.16

9

    109.44
    450.07
Fees 9.99*4      39.96
Total Cost     490.03

 

This leaves me with $9.97 to add to next month’s investment.

Each month, I’ll come back and add to my portfolio, track the value of my stocks, and let you know how I’m doing. (There will be graphs, oh yes there will.)

And, I’ll start researching the different websites that let you invest for yourself. I’d look at brokers, but somehow I don’t think a broker is going to be all that interested in working with someone with the size of portfolio I’m looking at.

 

Feel free to send me suggestions for what to buy, or tell me I need to sell. Let me know if I’m doing something totally wrong. Or, set your own budget and play along with the experiment. The best way to learn is by doing…

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Sunday Evening Post #77

Welcome to the first Sunday Evening Post of 2013. I have got new goals and a new format that I am hoping will help me focus on what I want to focus on this year- in blogging, every day finances, and my side hustles.

Let’s start with the weekly tracking. I track every penny we spend on my spreadsheets. I don’t really need to do it here, too. Instead, what I want to make more visible is whether or not we are in budget in key spending categories. I’ll be tracking both for the month and for the year (since some categories are set up to balance out over the year, not be spot on every month). And it won’t be every budget category I have, but the ones that are more discretionary: groceries, house (home improvement, kitchen gadgets, new linens, etc), allowance, and eating out. While other categories like pets (as in vet bills), medical, and bills could be tracked, those are going to be paid no matter what, and if I need to make money up in the budget, it will be from these other categories.

Category

On Budget

Month

Year

Groceries

Yes

Yes

House

Yes

Yes

Eating Out

Yes

Yes

Allowance – E

Yes

Yes

Allowance – C

Yes

Yes

 

When it comes to goals, I intend to have 2 year-long goals in each blogging, finances, and side hustle (ie writing). There will also be at least one floating goal- that is, a goal I want to accomplish that I don’t expect to take all year.

 

Blogging

The purpose of these two goals is, yes, to grow my blogs, but also to support and highlight blogs and bloggers I enjoy. Just like I will be posting 2 new to me blogs every week in my round ups, the point here is to draw attention to blogs that others might not be familiar with. (Blog swaps will not count toward either of these goals.)

Write one guest post per month. It can be for personal finance or pet blogs, but one a month. In all the time I have been blogging, not counting blog swaps, I have managed 4 guest posts, so this is a somewhat ambitious goal.

The four previous guest posts are:

Guest post: Making Choices @Daily Money Shot (Aug 2011)

Puppies as Christmas presents @That Mutt(Dec 2011)

100 Words On: Donating to the Company Charity Drive @Len Penzo dot com (Nov 2012)

Holiday Games and Finance: What Can the Game “Dominion” Teach You About Money @Average Joe’s Money Blog (Dec 2012)

As you can see, I have managed to get a guest post up each of the last two months, so I have got some momentum built up.

Publish one guest post per month. Just like with making guest posts, I have only accepted 4 guest posts over the course of my time blogging. Two of them were this last year right around the time my MIL passed. (Thank you again Jana and Joe.)

I will accept guest posts for any of my blogs (100 Words On, Life by Pets, The Dog Ate My Wallet, and The Prose Passage). And if a personal finance blogger wants to write about their pets or a pet bloggers want to write about their writing, I’m all for it. Let’s get some cross genre action going here.

The point of this goal is not to accept those random email offers of guest posts or to get paid content. I want a chance to highlight on my blogs the writing of bloggers I like and support.

The four previous guest posts published here are:

From Jana @Daily Money Shot – At the Intersection of Work and Personal and Guest Post: Preparing for Baby

From Gin @Frugal Students – Real Estate

From Joe @Average Joe’s Money Blog – My Year Without Money

 

Writing

Writing fiction is my side hustle, though I have yet to make any money from it. I have found that I devote much more time to the blogs than I do my fiction, though, because I am on a schedule. I feel accountable to my readers to get posts up when I say I will. And because I am a procrastinator, deadlines are a must for me. I get the energy I need to work on something from an impending deadline.

I am hoping to transfer the power of those two things- accountability and deadlines, to my fiction this year.

Submit at least one piece to a paying venue per month. Duotrope.com, the site I use to find markets for my work, went from being a free site to a paid subscription this year. I went ahead and paid for a year, in order to help motivate myself. I managed to submit 5 pieces last year. But I’m going for a minimum 12 this year.

I have two possibilities for this month. One I am certainly submitting to (deadline Jan 31) and one I’m thinking of submitting to (also Jan 31 deadline).

Complete the first draft of my novella and start edits. My biggest concern with submitting short pieces to venues is that I will let my longer work sit on the shelf, the long term goal ignored for the short term. So I am going to track that here, too. I’m about a third of the way into the story, and I know where it’s going, so I just have to write it. (That makes it sound so easy.) I need to hold myself accountable to this work, as well.

 

Finances

A lot of financial goals will actually end up as floating goals- ie they will be things I expect to complete well before the year is out. But I do have some long term financial goals that I think will work for year-long tracking.

Create and track a practice stock portfolio. I don’t have any money in the budget this year set aside for investing outside of my 403(b), but I do want to get to that point. I don’t know a whole lot about investing, but I have always loved following the stock market. I am going to give myself X amount of dollars a month to invest. I’ll put some money into well-known companies, but I’ll also use tips from some of the investing blogs out there to find some sleeper investments.

Once per month, I’ll post my investments, progress, and research into a different investment site or option. And hopefully I feel comfortable enough to divert some dollars into investing in 2014.

End the year “on budget” in the categories I’m tracking. Groceries, eating out, and allowance are the three categories we are most likely to go over. In fact, based on going over last year, I raised our budgeted amounts for this year. So I really, really want to stay in budget this year.

 

Floating Goals

Refinance the house. There’s a possibility the house could appraise high enough for us to buy up to 20% equity within three to four months. There’s also the possibility it will appraise for low enough that we’d be $30k underwater. Either way, though, we are paying a 6% interest rate on our mortgage, despite both of us having credit scores over 760 and a debt to income ratio around 22%. We need to fix that. Even if we end up paying PMI, we could lower our mortgage payments by a few hundred a month. This needs to be done ASAP.

Replace all the windows in the house. This won’t happen until spring or summer, but I want to get it listed now because it was one of my goals for last year and fell by the wayside. I need to keep this on the radar. Our plan will be to secure 0% financing (one year same as cash type deal) if at all possible. Otherwise, we’ll pay cash up front.

Publish new photography/flash fiction book. This was a goal I had last year that had to be set aside due to everything going on in the life of the artist I want to work with. Her life has settled somewhat, so I’m hoping to get traction on this. But if we can’t start working sometime in the next couple of months, I plan on finding a different artist/photographer to work with and move forward on a book.

No matter who I work with, I’m actually hoping to fund this project through Kickstarter.

 

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A Weekend of Poor Impulse Control

Every once in a while, I mention something to C with the expectation he will talk me out of it. Sometimes, I even start the conversation with the note that I need him to be the reasonable one. This weekend, we both failed at being reasonable, at least when it came to talking.

 

Saturday. It started with me, not feeling well, wanting to be able to play video games while being on the bed, instead of sitting at my desk. I mentioned that I really want a new laptop. My $300 laptop that we bought in 2008 works great for writing, but nothing else.

Instead of talking me down, C took my request seriously. We looked at the coupons on the CostCo book (which would not go into effect until Tuesday), and then did more research online.

What we would both really like is one of the convertible laptops. I’m not talking a tablet with an attachable keyboard, I’m talking full on laptop that has a touch screen and can fold over to be used as a tablet. We even went out on Saturday to see what options Best Buy and Office Depot had. There weren’t many options, and we came home empty handed.

Fallout. Yesterday, with the CostCo coupons in effect, we looked at their online deals. Sadly for me (but good for my pocket book), the convertible they carry did not have a discount, so we decided to wait, at least for now.

 

Sunday. I am addicted to a local real estate site. I love looking at houses and following the market in our area. There was this one house, not too far from where we live, that I was in love with that was having an open house on Sunday. C agreed to go see it with me.

The house was even more perfect for us in person than it was in pictures. It has a fully fenced yard, front and back, with the front and back separated. There’s a little patio with fire pit in the front yard. The front of the house has a lovely, huge, covered porch.

The floors are wood. The living room is rather small, but flows nicely into the dining room area. The kitchen is as big as our current kitchen and dining room combined, with an eat in area and a gas stove. Behind it, there’s an actual mud room that’s big enough to be the pantry and laundry room.

Also downstairs is the master (with half bath), a full bath, and a second bedroom/office. Upstairs has two more bedrooms, one of them which would also be called a master if it had it’s own bath. Still, it shares with only one other room, and the bath has a claw foot tub.

Off the stair landing is a walk in panel to the attic storage.

It has a two car garage and a nice deck in back.

The house is also more expensive than we can afford at the moment, though if we hadn’t paid off my graduate student loan, we would have had 5% cash down.

Again, C is with me at this open house to remind me that I can’t have it, even thought I want it. Except that C wants it, too. And he’s more creative in coming up with ways to finance it than I am.

Ideas like: Create the LLC we’ve been talking about with friends and sell our home and the MIL’s condo to it. Once we no longer own our current home (even though our “rent” would still be the mortgage payment), buy the new house. We would then rent out our current home, and thus, our property management empire would be born.

Or take out a loan from our retirement funds to come up with a down payment.

We are not doing either of these things, but it’s tempting. I really am in love with this house.

Fallout. Talking about new mortgages got us talking about our current mortgage. We’re paying 6%, but we’re probably a little underwater on the property, and we don’t qualify for HARP. (Our loan is not owned by Fannie or Freddie.) But still, 6%, when current interest rates our below 4%.

So today we have a phone consultation with Quicken loans. C is open to paying PMI again (me not so much), but we’re also wondering if we could do an 80/20. They aren’t as popular now as they were when we got our first home with one, but we have excellent credit and now, very little debt.

So who knows, maybe we can end up with a slightly smaller mortgage payment, or at least be making more progress toward paying down equity with our current payment.

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Top 12 of 2012

Happy New Year!

I love that we use this time of year for reflection and goal setting. Okay, I try to do at least some of that year round, but I always love the idea of starting on a brand new slate. 2013, here I come.

However, before you can know where you’re going, you have to know where you’ve been. So today is one of reflection. We’ll look at the top 12 posts of 2012 here on Dog Ate My Wallet (excluding round ups).

 

But before we get to the posts, I also want to say what a lovely year in blogging it has been. I’ve made some new blogger friends, had an amazing time at FinCon, finally getting to hang out with people in person, and just overall really enjoyed the community I am part of. Thank you all for stopping by here, reading, and commenting. It means a lot.

 

And now, on to the count down.

 

12) Annual Rant: Holiday Car Commercials – while not as popular as the previous year’s rant about car’s not being gifts (my most popular post ever), it seems like a lot of you agree with me on this.

11) Forced to Use Comcast (Why I Hate It) – I think we all hate our limited options when it comes to internet and cable providers. The Seattle area’s issues are compounded by the fact that the government has decided there can be no competition.

10) February Coffee Talk- What Does Your Tax Return Say About You – whether we want to admit it or not, there are certain people’s whose tax returns we’d all love to take a look at.

9) My Brother’s New Venture – this year, my brother took a risk and left his very well paying, pretty posh government contractor job to start his own business. He’s had some ups and downs, but he’s happier than he’s ever been

8) 2011 = Winning – One of my few posts with graphs. Maybe that’s why it was so popular. I’ll have to get something similar up for 2012.

7) The Cult of the Dream Job – Remember, a job is only part of your dream life

6) Guest Post: Preparing for Baby – I love that this post from Jana at Daily Money Shot made the list. And for those wondering- we’re still in paperwork.

5) Get Your Resume Noticed (and Read) – we all want to get hired

4) What I Love About Wednesdays – how often can you get away with earing the same piece of clothing?

3) Encouraging Your Child’s Inner Entrepenuer – this was a blog swap with one of my favorite bloggers (no on hiatus) Money for College Project

2) Money Mistakes I’d Make All Over Again: Purchasing a Timeshare – everyone loves to hate on timeshares. I love our timeshare. In fact, I’ll be using our Victoria, BC, location in just a couple of weeks.

 

And finally, my most viewed post of 2012….was written in 2011.

1) 4.5 Years of Peer to Peer Lending – this was an in depth look at our investing result with Prosper, covering the recession years. For more recent results, you could also check out 5.5 Years Investing with Prosper (which happened to be written in 2012)

 

And there we are, my top 12 posts of 2012. I’ll be back on Thursday with a look ahead to 2013!

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Sunday Evening Post #76

Day

Amount

Place

Category

Monday

$10.00

safeway

groceries

$14.25

papa murphys

groceries

$51.25

lowes

house

$39.25

christmas

allowance

Thursday

$57.00

writing

allowance

Friday

$123.25

CostCo

groceries

Saturday

$22.25

Red Robin

eating out

I am the queen of last minute Christmas shopping. I just am.

Otherwise, this was a fairly quiet week for spending. I did spend money on Thursday on my writing goals, but that’s something I feel good about.

Saturday, I wanted C to talk me out of getting a new laptop. Instead we ended up researching the new convertible laptops- the ones that can function like a tablet, too. We didn’t buy anything, but a convertible laptop would fit the wants both of us have for our next electronic device, so don’t be surprised if there’s spending on one in the next few weeks.

Sunday, I took C with me to an open house for a house I’ve been coveting. That may or may not have been a mistake. More about that on Tuesday.

 

This is the FINAL post for 2012 goals! How did I do?

1)      Be paid for publishing one piece of fiction

FAIL

Submissions so far: 5

Responses: 3 rejections 1 acceptance, 1 pending (just submitted on Thursday)

While I was thrilled to have a piece accepted for publication in Conquest Through Determination, I was not paid for that piece.

A similar goal will be back next year

2)      Pay All Adoption Expenses in Cash & Still Pay for C’s College Out of Pocket

UNKNOWN

Paying off my graduate student loan may have made this one a little more difficult, but since our “pick me, pick me” books won’t likely be in front of prospective birth parents until late February at the earliest, we should be in good shape.

Not certain if I’ll carry this goal over.

3)      Attend FinCon12. Pay for the trip with money from allowance/side projects saved/earned BEFORE the conference starts. Goal: $600

SUCCESS

Or at least that’s what I’m calling it. I am still pondering whether I want to attend FinCon again next year, or instead attend one of the pet blogging conferences, or not do either because I’ve got a cousin getting married in NC in June….

4)      Become a member of Yakezie (6 month anniversary is Jan 21)

FAIL

I am still not a Yakezie member. My Alexa ranking isn’t in the right place. And I’ve made peace with this. While I love what the network does for bloggers and intend to continue to support it, I don’t think this will be a goal that carries over.

5)      Make money from my blogs.

FAIL

AdSense earnings: $30.56 at the end of November, with $0.39 made so far this month. (They won’t send me any money until I hit $100.)

Amazon earnings: $0.00

And again, I’m okay with this. I’m not really looking to make money from my blogs. While I will continue to have the ads and the Amazon placement next year, this goal will not be continued.

6)      Be healthier

SUCCESS

Five months in to my 13 month diet, I’ve lost 30 of the 65 pounds that I set as my goal, and that included the fact that I gained 4.5 pounds over the last week (so not a surprise, given how much chocolate I’ve eaten lately). I am really happy with my progress and definitely intend to continue down this path.

My goal overall is still to be healthier, not just skinnier. Because even once I get to my goal weight, I’ll still be overweight, just not morbidly obese. I will never be skinny, and that’s fine with me. I just want to be healthy and to have the energy to do things with my dogs and with my eventual child.

This goal will definitely continue.

 

So, I succeeded in 1/3 of my goals, failed in ½, and one couldn’t be determined. And I’m okay with that. The point of goals isn’t always to achieve them, but to make you think about your life in a different way. These goals did that for me, even if I did later decide that they weren’t the right goals for me.

 

This is my last post of 2012. Thank you to all of you for following along. It’s been a tough year, but also a good year. I am happy to have been able to share it with you.

I hope everyone has a safe and happy New Year’s Eve, and I look forward to seeing you in 2013.

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I’m Not Reading Anything

I am not feeling well this week, so no What I’m Reading. Honestly, I haven’t even been to any blogs other than to reply to comments on my guest post over at Average Joe’s Money Blog. I’m hoping that I can be mostly a bum today (maybe start packing up Christmas decorations, maybe not) and start to feel better.

So in lieu of content, here are pictures of the pups with the only Christmas gifts they got (which were not from us).

It was hard to get a good picture of Larry with his Shark, as he was in constant motion.

Howie didn’t really play with his Duck, but it is a cute picture

June knew the Platypus was for her before we even got the package open

 

 

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The More Things Change…

In You Are Not Alone, I wrote about the circumstances that led to me joining the Women In Red message boards in 2009. This was a community started based on a series of articles written by MP Dunleavey for MSN Money. While MP is no longer with MSN or the community, and the community isn’t hosted on MSN anymore, it is still going strong. Sunday will mark my 3 year anniversary of having been a member of the Women in Red Racers– a group dedicated to “racing” down our debt. This is a modified version of what I will be posting there as my anniversary update.

 

One of the most difficult things to do is pull together your entire debt picture and look at it as a whole. It can seem smaller, more manageable, when you’re only looking at minimum payments, or one card here, one loan there. But without the big picture, you can’t put together a big picture plan.

Back in 2009, pulling together all of our debts (except the mortgage) was not something I wanted to do, but it was something I needed to do.

 

Here is what our debt looked like on 12/30/2009

LOC

Starting Balance

APR

Originally Borrowed

Chase CC  $    2,171.85

various

BofA CC  $        432.55

10.90%

LaZBoy CC  $        882.58

0% until 6/10

Care Credit  $    3,196.57

0% until 11/10

USL  $  18,154.75

3.50%

 $  16,000.00
GSL  $  42,150.85

6.29%

 $  39,000.00
Car  $    4,771.88

2.90%

 $  27,536.44
Total  $  71,761.03

 

 

Almost $72,000 in debt- it was scary, terrifying, even. But it was also a starting point. And every month, when payments were made, I could update the totals and see the progress being made. It was motivation in spreadsheet form.

 

But this post isn’t about where we were. It’s about where we are. We paid off debt. In summer 2010 we added more debt when we did 1 year same as cash financing on the flood remediation/prevention work in the basement. But we kept paying it off.

The GSL payments were made on the 4th of every month, so I know that on January 4, 2011, we owed just over $47,260. On January 4, 2012, we owed just over $39,250.

 

On my 3 year anniversary, our (non-house) debt looks like this

LOC

Current Balance

Starting Balance

% Paid

Chase CC  $                 –  $    2,171.85

100%

BofA CC  $                 –  $        432.55

100%

LaZBoy CC  $                 –  $        882.58

100%

Care Credit  $                 –  $    3,196.57

100%

Basement  $                 –  $    4,775.30

100%

USL  $  14,261.81  $  18,154.75

21%

GSL  $                 –  $  42,150.85

100%

Car  $                 –  $    4,771.88

100%

Total  $  14,261.81  $  76,536.33

81%

 

On January 4, 2013, we will owe just over $14,260. I like this picture so much better.

Over the last three years, we have paid down over $60,000 in debt. We have averaged paying off more than 25% of our debt per year. We’ve had some “help” in that C was able to collect unemployment benefits for over 2 years, due to working the census in 2010. Also in 2010, I got a new job with a 33% raise. This year, we used money from MIL’s life insurance to pay off the GSL.

 

Looking back at my old posts on the board, I was on a five year pay off plan. I knew we couldn’t maintain the 33% pace we paid off in 2010, not with starting to pay for C’s school out of pocket in January 2011. Of course, looking at it now, there’s a part of me that thinks we should be able to get this paid off this year- get us down to a 4 year plan. But I’m sticking with the 5 year plan- with the intent of making the last USL payment December 2014.

 

Why? As I’ve said before, the student loans from my undergraduate years are at a 3.5% interest rate. That’s pretty cheap money. We’re still paying out of pocket for C to be in school and will be doing so through March 2014. (He’ll graduate in May, but the last tuition payment will be in March.) We’re trying to keep cash reserves around $10,000 to pay for adoption expenses should they come up. (If they don’t, some of that money will be sent to the USL, but a good portion will also be used to buy all those things you need when there’s a new child in the house.) To go along with that, there’s still more work that needs to be done on our home.

I had hoped last summer to replace all of our windows, but that didn’t happen, mostly because we spent a lot of money on the items we needed to pass the home inspection for our foster care license. But that does mean this spring/summer, we really need to get our windows replaced. We’ll look for a one year same as cash kind of deal, but if we can’t find something like that, we want to be able to pay out of pocket.

There’s also some plumbing work that needs to be done in the bathroom- something we’ve been putting off forever, but that we really should get done.

 

On some level, this is proof of that old saying “the more things change, the more they stay the same”. C and I are in a very different financial situation than I was when I joined the WIR boards 3 years ago, and yet, we remain on the same 5 year repayment plan. There’s a part of me that thinks if we should be more aggressive- at least cut one year out. I mean, honestly, if we emptied our cash reserved, the USL could be paid off in April, and then we’d be debt free except for the mortgage. But I’ve come to like having those cash reserves. I like being able to pay for things now so that I don’t have to worry about how I’m going to pay for them in the future.