• Books,  Reviews

    Book Review: The Girls of Atomic City by Denise Kiernan

    The Girls of Atomic City by Denise Kiernan is my favorite kind of history book. It takes the backdrop of a major even in history – in this case the creation of the atomic bomb – and puts in front of it the stories of everyday people who were involved. This is not the story of Oppenheimer or Fermi, though they are in here. This is not the story of Roosevelt or Truman, though they are obviously part of it. It is the stories of a few young women (and men) who worked in Oak Ridge, Tennessee, not even knowing what it was they were working on, and how those…

  • Finances

    This is Why We Need to Talk About Money

    I used to have a blog dedicated to personal finance, and I still talk about finances here for one reason. I believe it is very important that we end the stigma on talking about money. Money is a necessity in the current world and not understanding it puts people at a significant disadvantage. If the only person who ever talks to you about how mortgages work is the shady guy trying to sell you a bad mortgage, then how are you supposed to know it’s a bad mortgage? On some level, the student loan crisis has been great for this. It has gotten more people talking about the costs of…

  • Life

    New Project Coming … Sometime

    Remember how I wrote about needing to find a new love? A new project or story or character to fall in love with? I think I have an idea. Well, actually, I had an idea, and I started working on all the technical aspects of it, because setting up web pages is fun, while actually writing is hard work. But thinking about how much writing I wanted to have done before I officially launched the new project seemed daunting. Because it needs to not just be written but critiqued and edited. And that is when it occurred to me. I have a ton of writing done and critiqued (though it…

  • Books,  Reviews

    Book Review: The Country of Ice Cream Star by Sandra Newman

    I honestly am not certain how to review The Country of Ice Cream Star by Sandra Newman. I found it via Slate’s Underrated Books of 2015 list and saw that it was a YA dystopian novel. That’s perfect for me. Sara Goldsmith, who recommended it on Slate, thought that perhaps the reason it was underrated was the invented dialect in which people speak. I am here to tell you that is the number one reason to read the book. The dialect is beautiful. It may take a few pages to really get into it, but once you do, it just seems perfect. I cannot tell you how many times, while…

  • Goals,  Life,  Parenting

    Snippets

    I said to someone at work last week that it was like my childhood was dying. Leonard Nimoy’s death last year hit me harder than the ones from this year, but still. Between David Bowie, Alan Rickman, and today Glen Frey, and numerous others crossing my FB page, it really is that the music and actors I grew up with are leaving this world. Of course the hardest part about all of it for me is that they are all about the same age as my parents. And while C and a number of my friends have lost their parents, I still have both of mine, and I am honestly…

  • Parenting

    Parenting Fail for the Win??

    Today was day of mixed parenting emotions. Pop Tart had a rough day, and while it is nice to still be able to cuddle her after a bad dream, that (and other) parts of the day make me afraid that she is never going to be able to be an independent adult. If she has a bad day, she thinks the rest of the world should bend to what she wants. She loses all ability to understand that she still has homework and chores and those need to get done regardless of what her day was like. She made the choice to put off clarinet practice until today, and then…

  • Finances

    Our Prosper Experiment – 9 years in

    You know that old saying about being able to make the statistics say whatever you want them to say? I have been thinking about that today as I have been working with the returns on our “investment” in Prosper, made back in March 2007. Since I have not posted about it on this blog before, I will give a very brief overview. For more details, you can click on the links to my 4 previous Prosper updates. In 2007, we had “extra” money lying around and decided to invest in peer to peer lending. We chose Prosper. We transferred over $3,000 and happily began making loans. Then over the course…

  • Original Fiction

    Spam Poem 2

    This poem was created by taking one sentence/line from each of the 19 spam comments I had waiting for moderation. I did not change spelling or punctuation. Please enjoy. Greetings from Los angeles! How to get more visitors??? It should be performed by an experienced professional. The quicker they could wake up and running the better. It was exactly what they were seeking and more. I hope to give something back and help others like you aided me. Where can I find out more? what you would like to say regarding this piece of writing, you make blogging look easy. Your Keyword should appear in your first paragraph and in…

  • Life

    Sunday Family Dinner

    One of the things we have tried to establish in our house since Pop Tart joined us is the family dinner. Even before she came, we tried to have a once a week whole house dinner with roomie J. But especially once Pop Tart came, we started eating dinner at the table, all of us together, every night. It is a habit that has stuck. I am not saying that we are perfect at this. Some nights one of us is sick and gets brought dinner in our bedroom. Occasionally we are doing something where we eat dinner on TV trays in the living room. But for the most part,…

  • Books,  Reviews

    Book Review: Uprooted by Naomi Novik

    Uprooted is the story of a young woman taken by the local wizard to live in his tower for the next ten years. I feel like say more is to rob the reader of the joy of discovering the story on their own. Naomi Novik has written a lovely kind of fairy tale, and old fashion fantasy, filled with knights on horseback, wizards in their high towers, and lovely maidens be stolen away. It is a fairy tale, but one in which there is nuance, where evil is evil, yes, but something more, too. Where enemies come from multiple directions, and not all from evil, but perhaps with competing priorities.…