The Dog Ate My Wallet

The Dog Ate My Wallet

Personal Finance in a World of Excuses

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Apparently, it’s Thursday

Things are a little crazy this week, and I pretty much forgot I needed to write a post. I’m pretty certain I was planning one on why you sometimes need to spend money on yourself, even if it seems like you shouldn’t. I guess that post will come next week.

 

Yesterday we submitted a rather important application, with a $300 application fee. We’ve gotten the email that they’ve received the application and will let us know if we’re accepted probably in the next week or so. (Yes, I’m being vague, at least until we’re accepted in to this process.) Anyway, that has been a big part of my focus.

 

My other focus right now is that we need to get the MIL qualified for Medicaid. It’s possible that she flat out qualifies and we won’t have to do anything, but we don’t know yet. That process is also weighing a lot on my mind. Her 100 days of Medicare covered SNF care will be up in April, and it’s very doubtful she’ll be ready to come home by then.

In addition, we found out today that her insurance company (who is also my employer) is now trying to say that her care is custodial, not skilled, and therefore isn’t covered by Medicare, because she’s making very little progress. The facility is fighting that, and you can bet I will be, too. They’re trying to blame a traumatic brain injury. But the last brain injury she had that I’m aware of happened in 2000, and she recovered from that, and was living on her own up until she went in for knee surgery in October 2011.

Her recent setbacks have all come since mid-January. And considering there were times when she didn’t even know we were in the room, the fact that she’s trying to communicate with us (even if she can’t find the right words) is, in fact, progress.

It’s a frustrating process financially and emotionally.

 

I am very grateful for our roommate J, this week, as he’s made dinner both on Tuesday night and tonight, when we just didn’t have the energy. Having a third person to make the dinner certainly saves us from going out to eat- which trust me, we would have tonight if there weren’t chicken cacciatore in the crock pot.

 

So that’s where things stand. I hope you’ll forgive tonight’s rather rambling post. I hope to be back on target next week.

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Forced to use Comcast (why I hate it)

Today I’m ranting. I try not to rant here too much. My friends and family get enough of that, but sometimes, I need to say it to a wider public.

 

Stupid Regulations

Rant one is againstKingCounty, where I live. They have laws/regulations in place that restrict who can offer cable TV in the different areas of the county. Where I live, the only authorized cable provider is Comcast. (These regulations were passed in order to protect a local provider who is the exclusive provider for parts of downtownSeattle.)

And when it was just TV, it probably didn’t seem like a big deal because you still have satellite options. But in my case, it’s not about the TV. It’s about the internet.

You see, I am a gamer. I am married to a gamer. Our roommate is a gamer. High speed internet is pretty much a requirement for us. Cable internet speeds are advertized at 21mbps, and independent tests put our speed at 15mbps.

If I want high speed internet that isn’t cable, my option is DSL. Want to know DSL speeds? 1.5mbps is the max in our neighborhood. Supposedly Century Link can offer higher speed DSL elsewhere, but not in our neighborhood and no one knows when that might change.

And trust me, internet speeds that are 1/10 of what we have now is just not acceptable.

 

Terrible Customer Service

Rant two, the more common rant, is against Comcast. You see, six months ago, when we decided to drop television and just go with internet, I was told- oh, it’s cheaper to have limited basic cable and internet bundled than it is to just have cable. That is what I was told. I was NOT told that that was a special offer that would end in 6 months. I know this because I very clearly remember asking the gentleman I talked to about why it was cheaper to have both than just the one, and he did not say it was an introductory offer, he said it was just cheaper.

So imagine my surprise when my Comcast bill was $20 more this month than it had been. And when I called to ask why, I was told that it would go up another $20 next month- that we had been on a 6 month special offer that was now going away and our prices would be going up $40/month. Considering I’d been paying just under $50/month, that’s a pretty hefty increase. Especially when you consider that before we changed, we’d been paying $150/month for one of their premium packages. I now get 13 channels, and you want to charge me $90/month for that?

Oh, and my favorite part of the call was that they tried to tell me I wasn’t authorized to make changes to the account. I know C is set up as the primary account holder because I am a traditional girl in some ways and always fill his information out first, but I am the one that fills out the information. Please don’t try and tell me I didn’t give myself permission to make changes to the account.

And besides, I was the one to call 6 months ago and make changes. Oh, your records say C was the one to call? Well, your records lie. Go listen to your recordings. I never pretend to be my husband. Or go look at the signature on the forms that returned the HD DVR. Mine, not his.

I would so love to ditch Comcast. I like having the Discovery channel, but I could live without the TV. What I need, though, is an equivalent internet service provider, and there just isn’t one. And for that, I blameKingCounty.

Interesting note: businesses can get cable internet through local companies as long as they aren’t getting cable TV, but residences are not given that option. There are lots of local competition options for DSL service, but the lines in our neighborhood are not able to support higher speed DSL, so no one can offers us decent service through that route.

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Sunday Evening Post #30

Day

 Amount

Place

Category

Tuesday

 $     3.52

Cafeteria

Allowance

 $     9.28

Safeway

Groceries

Wednesday

 $   10.00

Dentist

Medical

 $   23.07

Qdoba

Eating Out

Friday

 $   42.48

Gas

Car

Saturday

 $   60.00

Saffron

Eating Out

Sunday

 $ 107.66

CostCo

Groceries

 $   23.76

Target

House

Under $300 this week, which isn’t bad. I now have some file boxes that will help me sort paperwork tomorrow when I spend some quality time working on de-cluttering our office (and perhaps even try to make some progress de-cluttering the bookshelf in our bedroom). I know it’s an exciting way to spend my holiday, but it’s needed. C will be doing homework, and J doesn’t have the day off.

the desk in our office

Big news this week was that on Wednesday I got my braces off! I do have to wear nighttime retainers for the rest of my life, but it feels so nice not to have the braces. My teeth are still adjusting, though it’s nothing like when I first got them on and I was on a semi-liquid diet for about 3 months.

Also big news this weekend, you may remember me writing about my brother’s new venture, well, tomorrow is their official opening date. (Here’s their hostels.com page.) Though apparently, they did have some Brazilian students show up on Friday night (they found the place via their smart phones) to find out if they were open early. They went ahead and checked the kids in, though they apparently had to help carry their own mattresses upstairs to the newly renovated bedroom.

I have six goals for 2012. As part of the Sunday evening posts, I am tracking those goals, kind of like I do for spending, in order to hold myself accountable.

1)      Be paid for publishing one piece of fiction

Submissions so far: 2

Responses: 1 rejection (this was for a contest. Almost 240 entries, only 10 chosen)

In big news, my book finally earned enough money that they send me a check! I’ve made back slightly less than 25% of what I paid to publish it. I know it’s not much, but it’s still exciting to me. Another 10 years or so, and the book might actually make a profit.

2)      Make money publishing my next art/fiction book

The artist I plan to be working with has been really swamped with her new job. I saw her for about 2 minutes earlier this week. Once her schedule gets settled, we can sit down and discuss the book.

As for using my dog park pictures for a dog park/Live by Pets version, I need to go through my pictures and make sure I have enough that are decent enough quality, and then work to get a web page for them put up.

3)      Attend FinCon12. Pay for the trip with money from allowance/side projects saved/earned BEFORE the conference starts. Goal: $600

My current balance is ($144.50), however, I’ve already bought the FinCon12 ticket, so I only need to save $500 more. That number also doesn’t count the check I got for the book on Friday, which will take my balance to ($122). (I told you the check wasn’t very big.)

C and I have also decided that we will each get $250 from our tax refund toward our allowances. That will put me in the positive numbers again. Not only weren’t we expecting a refund this year, we certainly weren’t expecting one as big as we’re getting. A substantial amount will still be added to savings to help pay for home improvement goals.

4)      Become a member of Yakezie (6 month anniversary is Jan 21)

It was announced this week that the Epsilon class application will go up in August. I plan to be a member of that class. I do need to make sure I’m still connecting with new challengers, though, because a lot of the challengers on my list this last time will be Yakezie Delta class members.

My current Alexa rating is 135,805.

5)      Make money from my blogs.

AdSense earnings: $18.55 (They won’t send me any money until I hit $100)

6)      Be healthier

We went to the dog park once, and that was today. We hope to make it again tomorrow.

We ate pretty healthy. C made lemon rosemary chicken for a couple nights, and the night I made my turkey penne casserole, I used diced tomatoes instead of tomato sauce and added a whole green pepper (it’s vegetable).

lemon rosemary chicken and rice

We did go out for Indian food on Saturday to celebrate me getting my braces off. I’m pretty certain my mango curry and bottomless chai were not super healthy, but they were incredibly yummy.

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What I’m Reading: Avoiding Picking Up Poop Edition

I avoid lots of chores by instead “working” on growing my blog. It’s really a fine way to spend the 5-6 hours I’m home alone on Saturday, even though that’s also prime chore doing time. (I am more likely to do chores when there aren’t people here to distract me.) One of the chores that comes along with having dogs is picking up poop. Not only has it been a while since we’ve picked up the yard due to weather, we now have a third dog in the house. It desperately needs to be done.

So what am I doing? I’m here, putting together another Saturday issue of What I’m Reading.

 

Charles over at Money Green Life gives us the Warning Signs of Too Much Debt

American Debt Project shares 10 Ways to Save Money

Not that Sam needs me to promote Financial Samurai, but I was a flaming feminist pretty involved in his discussion on The Gender Wage Gap and A Solution to Income Equality, so it’s only fair I share.

To go along with that, Aloysa of My Broken Coin let her husband, Beaker take over the keyboard for this great post On Women’s Liberation, Manhood, and My Wife

At Broke Professionals, Marie wrote about the $10 a Week Difference– would you believe that is exactly the difference that was made to my paycheck by me upping my withholdings? $10 more a week, here I come.

And finally, I want to highlight a brand new (I’m talking 2 weeks old) financial blog that I came across this week. Over at This, That, and the MBA, Christopher is just starting to share his life and the family’s financial plan with us. Right now, they’re considering a personal loan in order to consolidate their credit card debts. Christopher- just remember, once those cards are paid off, cut them up, freeze, do something so that the balance doesn’t come back.

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The Phone Saga Continues

I wrote in August about my phone saga. What I didn’t know at the time I wrote that post is that the new phone I was getting was a Nextel phone and even though they are on a the same network as Sprint, they work very differently. That means that most Sprint tech support folks, even though they were incredibly nice and tried really, really hard to be helpful, knew nothing about the phone or its problems. Some of them couldn’t even understand the problems since Sprint phones don’t have SIM cards and Nextel phones do.

I wrote that post on August 2nd. If you go to my Sunday evening post from August 14, you’ll find that I finally got my phone working that weekend.

 

And guess what- we’re back to a phone saga. The battery is dying. Just this week, it decided that it could hold a charge for about 11 hours, and that was it. Now, that mostly means that when I’m home, it’s plugged in. It’s still working, but now we need to buy a new battery for it.

We might also need to buy a new battery for C’s phone. It also seemed to lose its charge really quickly earlier this week, but then he spent 3 days with it turned off, so I’m not certain. It’s almost like an EMP hit our phones and nothing else.

 

Anyway, now I’ve got to start looking for phone batteries.

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11 Questions (and Answers)

Because I am too lazy to come up with an original post today, I’m answering these questions from Jana over a Daily Money $hot. I’m being extra lazy and not even posting the rules of the meme. I’m just answering the questions.

1. What is the one item you like to splurge on?

It used to be getting my nails done, but now it’s shoes- a $200 pair every couple of years. (When did I become such a girl?)

2. Do you buy books or use the library? Why?

Both. I’m a writer- hopefully one day a novelist. Writer’s make money by selling books, so I like to support my favorite authors by buying their books. However, if I’m reading a new author, or looking for something new to read, I’ll go to the library.

3. If you were to lose everything tomorrow, what is your back-up plan?

Define everything? C and the dogs? The house? My job? If I lost C and the dogs, I think the plan would be to have an emotional breakdown. If we lost the house/all material goods- that’s what insurance is for. And hey, maybe I could then build a house I actually like on our plot of land. It would suck to lose the computers and our stuff, but as long as all people and animals were fine, we’d figure it out. If I lost my job? We would apply for student loans for C instantly, and I would be out pounding the pavement and harassing my social network for any job lead I could find.

4. If you were to win the lottery tomorrow, what would you do with the money?

Pay off all of our debt. Pay off all of my parents’ debt (so I wouldn’t have to worry about them in retirement). Buy a plot of land and start building for our dog rescue. Buy another house we could move into and renovate this one. Invest. Maybe, just maybe, I’d quit my job. We’d have to see how much was left after everything else.

5. Who would win in a fight—Wayne or Garth?

Garth. He’s trixie.

6. If you could eat one crayon color, which one would it be?

Cobalt Blue. I don’t know why

7. What is your opinion on dogs wearing coats?

I never thought I’d be behind it, but now that I have a skinny, short haired dog who shivers when coming in from the rain, I’m re-thinking.

8. How do you plan to teach your kids about money?

Talk to them at age appropriate levels, allowance, make them save money

9. What is one hidden talent that you have? Would you exploit it for money if you had to?

Helping people find the right dog for them. If I could figure out a way to get paid for that, you bet I would.

10. Do you approve of the designated hitter position?

I don’t care about baseball, but I believe the argument in my house goes “it’s the most un-American rule in sports”

11. Which president not currently on money do you think belongs on money? Which denomination would you put him on?

I don’t think any Presidents should be on money. I think they should all be replaced by random other people or symbols from American history. So Franklin and Hamilton would get to stay, as would Sacajawea and Susan B Anthony. Also Buffalo. But I’m tired of Presidents.

 

If you really want me to come up with 11 questions of my own, let me know and I will. But right now, there’s a doggie nose that is insisting my hands leave the keyboard and instead do some petting.

 

 

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Sunday Evening Post #29

Day

Amount

Place

Category

Monday

$150.00

Car Service

Car

Thursday

$80.00

Gas

Car

Friday

$275.00

CostCo

Groceries

Sunday

$7.00

Starbucks

Allowance

$90.00

Fred Meyer

Groceries

$12.50

Safeway

Groceries

A little over $600 this week. The car service will come out of the car account, and the gas wasn’t just filling up the car but also three of our reserve tanks as well.

$110 of the CostCo spending was renewing our membership. In a few weeks we’ll have our rebate check and then have $105 off of our next CostCo trip, so in the end, we made $5 on our 2011 CostCo membership (it was $100 last year).

So spending wasn’t that out of control.

Howie is settling in nicely, and otherwise things have been pretty quiet here at the house. We did have his vet appointment on Friday. The vet places his age at 10-12, probably closer to 12. Still, he’s getting more pep and even did a little playing (okay, had a play stance, but didn’t actually play) with our dogs last night. We’re hoping to get some weight on him over the next few weeks and see if he starts getting more active.

The MIL was released from the hospital and moved to a new SNF. The speech and physical therapists we’ve talked to seem very engaged in her care, and tonight when we were there, she was mentally more with it than she’s been in a while. She still went in and out on us, but she was able to answer some questions and spoke in sentences, so that’s progress at least.

 

 

I have six goals for 2012. As part of the Sunday evening posts, I am tracking those goals, kind of like I do for spending, in order to hold myself accountable.

1)      Be paid for publishing one piece of fiction

Submissions so far: 2

Responses: 1 rejection (this was for a contest. Almost 240 entries, only 10 chosen)

I did some looking at submission requests this week and there wasn’t anything out there for what I have already written. I did get some ideas for other things to write, though, so hopefully this number will go up, soon.

2)      Make money publishing my next art/fiction book

I haven’t contacted the artist I plan to work with because of the weather. Nor have I started compiling the pet pictures I want for a book. Hopefully I’ll have time to work on it this week. (This hasn’t changed since last week.)

3)      Attend FinCon12. Pay for the trip with money from allowance/side projects saved/earned BEFORE the conference starts. Goal: $600

Still no accurate number. However, instead of paying taxes this year like we’d expected, we’re getting a return of over $3k. C has decided that he’d rather not take the trip to Austin in March, so I think I can count this paid for. I still want to try and save up the money, though, so I will keep tracking- once I actually get the nerve to look at my numbers.

4)      Become a member of Yakezie (6 month anniversary is Jan 21)

My Alexa ranking continues to drop. I’m under 140k now. I plan on applying again for Epsilon class later in the year.

Delta class got their emails tonight. I don’t know about others, but make sure you swing by Daily Money Shot and congratulate Jana for making it through the trial period and becoming a full-fledged member of Yakezie.

5)      Make money from my blogs.

AdSense earnings: $18.40 (They won’t send me any money until I hit $100)

6)      Be healthier

I know we had quickie jambalaya one night, steak on Wednesday, CostCo pizza on Friday, and J made General’s chicken last night. Tonight was burgers and fries. (I did have fire roasted peppers on mine- does that count as veggies?)

Lunch today was homemade wonton soup, so that’s a little healthy.

We dog parked twice, though one of those times we stayed in the shy/small dog area (allows Howie to be off-leash), so did not walk too much.

For the sake of our emotional health, we’ve working on instituting family nights here at the house. We’re trying to eat dinner together in the living room (instead of each of us in front of our computers) and maybe watching a tv show together once or twice a week. And yesterday we played a board game and then watched a movie. It’s so nice to live with people whose company you honestly enjoy.

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What I’m Reading: Love is in the Air Edition

Tuesday is Saint Valentine’s Day- not that C and I are doing anything. I get my braces off on Wednesday, and that’s what I really want to celebrate. Of course, I’ll need to give my mouth some time to recover, so we won’t be doing anything until next weekend.

But it still makes a great theme for this weekend’s roundup, so here we go.

They almost form a heart

Frugal Beautiful asks that ever important question- Love and Money: Are You Training People to Treat You Poorly? It’s a lot like with pets, if we accept bad behavior, we are teaching them that that is acceptable behavior. Stand up for yourself.

Newlyweds on a Budget is showing some love to new Yakezie challenger Face and Fitness by sharing this guest post on How to have a great Valentine’s Day on Budget. Remember, everything is so much more romantic if you aren’t derailing your other goals.

Finances are one of the leading causes of divorce. I don’t think that surprises anyone. At Buck$ome Boomer, Suba takes a moment to give us some tips on How to Find Financial Accord with our significant other.

The Millionaire Nurse, Dr. Dean’s wedding anniversary is actually right around Christmas, but he and his wife of 31 years (way to go Dr. & Mrs. Dean) often wait to celebrate until Valentine’s Day. Still, they believe in a relaxed kind of day. And so do I.

Debt Free by Thirty is without the Sailor this Valentine’s Day. We know she misses him, but we are thankful for his service. Still, she will be making her kids some awesome Valentine mailboxes. And really, isn’t making the kids happy what’s really important.

And finally, in case you’re thinking you don’t need to take the advice about frugal Valentine’s, Smart Family Finance takes a look at the National Retail Foundation’s report on Valentine’s Day spending which proves that Men Will Pay Twice as Much for Something They Need.

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The Things I Learn Doing My Own Taxes

I almost always do our taxes twice. I do a preliminary run through as soon as we have all (or most) of our paperwork. And later I’ll sit down with TurboTax and do a complete return. I like to know what’s coming up. This week, partly in preparation for yesterday’s Coffee Talk post, I did the first run through of our 2011 return.

Last year, we owed around $1,100. This year, C only received half as much in unemployment compensation, and we would receive the education credit. I was expecting to owe around $500. Imagine my surprise when my numbers came out with us getting about $3,100 back.

The $4,200 swing between the two years threw me off. I quickly opened up our 2010 tax return file and started comparing the numbers to the 2011 return. What had I done wrong?

The first thing I realized was that if we had been able to claim an education credit last year, (which we would have been able to do if it weren’t for really bad timing), we actually wouldn’t have owed anything. Huh. I should have noticed that. (Not that it would have changed things. There are weird tax rules around what you get to claim education credit wise when you start school in January, and our timing getting him registered for class and then paying for it was just off.)

As it was, this year we got a straight $2,500 directly off our tax burden due to him being in school. Okay, that accounts for part of the shift, but what about the rest?

I double checked our adjusted gross income.

2010 was a transition year for me. I changed jobs at my company halfway through the year. The new job came with a 33% raise. C also worked for the Census in 2010 and received UE benefits for the whole year. (We did not pay taxes in the UE benefits.)

2011, C only had UE for half the year (still no taxes paid on it), but I had my new job the whole year. Combined with our interest income, capital losses, and the deduction for student loan interest, our 2011 adjusted gross income was only a couple thousand less than our 2010 adjusted gross income.

That seems right. But a ~$2k reduction in income does not result in owing $1,700 less in taxes.

I went back through all of our deductions. I did everything right, and it was all roughly comparable to 2010, except for the education credit. What was happening? Taxes certainly haven’t been lowered that much.

And then I noticed it. In 2011, I had about $2,200 more in taxes withheld from my paycheck than we had withheld in 2010. Well, that certainly accounts for the difference in the tax return.

But why was the withholding so much more?

When C lost his job, we made the decision to keep the withholdings on my paycheck the same. We did this because we knew we weren’t going to have taxes taken out of UE. (At the time, we certainly did not expect him to be out of work 2.5+ years later.)

When I got my promotion, that 33% raise changed my tax bracket. It was still a huge raise for me, so I didn’t really realize they were taking a greater percentage of federal taxes out than they had been before.

So there we have it, little changes I didn’t think much about added up to a big tax return.

Now, I’m not complaining about getting the money back. It’s a nice little windfall. I think my plans for it include paying for a trip to Austin to visit E (former roommie, a trip that was already kind of planned for anyway), an extra $1k toward my student loans, and saving the rest in our house fund to help pay for new windows this summer.

At the same time, I would really like to have that money in my regular paycheck. We are good at staying in our budget, so I am not worried about frittering it away on silly stuff (which is what I would have done with extra money in my early 20s- so tax returns were good things). I’d like to have it in my budget and my savings account so that I have a more honest picture of our financial situation.

 

I looked at my W-4 (tax withholdings) this morning. I claim married, but I was also only claiming 1 exemption. Considering we plan for C to be in school through May 2013 at the very least, with the possibility of him going to grad school after, and that he won’t be earning any income this year at all, I figured it was safe to up my exemptions to 2.

 

Oh, and as a side note, this year our tax return showed tangible evidence of our debt paydown. For the first time since taking out my graduate student loans, I was not able to take the full student loan interest deduction. I fell short by about $400.

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February Coffee Talk- What does your tax return say about you?

This post is part of February Coffee Talk, as hosted by First Gen American. Please check out her site to see all the other entries in the series.

 

What can you learn about me from my tax return? There are a lot of the standard little things.

Married, somewhat traditional- we have the same last name, C’s name is listed first on the tax return.

No kids.

We own our home.

We have lots of little investments, some of which lose money.

We donate to charity, but never in large amounts.

Education is important to us- we’re getting both student loan interest deductions and education credits.

Those are the basics. It doesn’t seem like there’s a whole lot interesting there, until you look at one other little line item on Schedule A. We deduct our sales tax- but not the amount you’d get if you used the formula.

What does that mean? It means our house if filled with scraps of paper. All sorts of paper. We are only able to deduct our actual sales tax because we keep every single receipt- every single one. We do our best to put them in a ziplock bag as we collect them, but sometimes paper just floats around our house.

And, if we’ve done this before (we have) it means that we also have to keep these hundreds of little pieces of paper around for the purposes of being audited.

I’ve written about us being near hoarders. This is part of the reason why. We have an important reason for holding on to these pieces of paper- our taxes. And that’s really how it starts- you have reasons to hold on to paper. And then you start holding on to it for no reason, or you just never get around to throwing it out.

 

Argh- Okay- for my own mental health, I need to stop obsessing over our hoarding tendencies and move on. (And do some cleaning/decluttering.)

What secret vices (or other interesting facts) would your tax return reveal about you?