The Dog Ate My Wallet

The Dog Ate My Wallet

Personal Finance in a World of Excuses

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What I’m Reading: The Dogs Think I Work Too Hard Edition

It’s a beautiful Saturday afternoon here. We’ve already been to the dog park, and I still have lawn mowing and basement organizing to work on. So let’s get right to the blogs.

apple blossoms

American Debt Project wonders what she’ll write about when she doesn’t have debt. I don’t know, but I hope she’ll think of something, because I do enjoy her blog. I know April was a tough month for her, but everyone has to cut themselves a break sometimes. Not a single one of us is perfect.

Money Beagle tells us why managers should be spending an extra $8 a month in order to have staff stop by their office. Animal crackers seems like a really good idea to me, though I happen to have a stock of wintergreen mints right by my open door. (I just have to note here, that I had to take a break right after typing “Money Beagle” because my Beagle was knocking the keyboard tray away with her nose. I had to back up and let her into my lap for a minute or two before she’d let me get back to work.)

Dr. Dean at The Millionaire Nurse Blog is one of my favorites, and this week, I think I discovered why. We’re both tea drinkers. I’m picky about my black tea, so I only drink that at home, but I love white teas, and I’m a pretty huge fan of herbal tea, too. What does this have to do with personal finance? Find out at Tea, Your Health, and Your Bank Account.

Since my Beagle (and really, all three dogs) obviously think I work too hard, at least at home, when I could be paying attention to them, I thought I’d share Step Away From The Mall’s post- Do you work too much? He gives us a bit of history on the 40 hour work week and what working more than that does to our productivity.

You all know that Jana at Daily Money Shot is one of my favorite people, let alone bloggers. I have been enjoying her anniversary week trip look back at the finances of her wedding, especially this look at the creative way they paid for their honeymoon. Our honeymoon was taken 9 months after the wedding, and accommodations were free, in the sense that we were gifted a week at a timeshare when we bought our own timeshare. (Which I still don’t regret, so there we are.)

And speaking of weddings, new Yakezie challenger, From Shopping to Saving, wrote about the advice she heard a lot from her family “You Have to Marry Rich”. I enjoy her thoughts on why this isn’t, in fact, the right choice for her.

Why am I working when there's this bundle of cuteness around? (this pictures is over 2 years old)

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Spending Discomfort

Going Big and Small: I have no problems with spending large amounts of money on large products. I’m talking in the thousands of dollars for dramatic results- like getting flood remediation work done on our basement. Sure it cost a lot, but our basement hasn’t flooded all winter. We did get a little water seeping up through the floor last night after a mini-typhoon hit our neighborhood, but it’s in a spot where there was no damage, and there was honestly so little of it, that now real clean up needed to be done. I don’t think we even grabbed the wet/dry vac. So we spent lots of money, but we got a lot for it. This was the first winter since we owned the house that the basement did not flood.

I am also good with spending small amounts here and there. $100 at Target or Fred Meyer for more bins and other organization tools? No problems. I can do that without a thought. I come home and put those tools to use, and I feel good about that. Considering our lack of closet space, bins that slip easily under beds are fabulous.

Stuck in the Middle: Where I have problems- when my stomach clenches, when I think to myself “Can we afford this? Do we really need this? Are we going to get enough use out of it? Is it really worth it?” and all those other nagging questions –is when we spend medium amounts of money. Case in point is this last weekend. We spent almost $800 over two days for a garden shed, and indoor storage cabinet, a new set of shelves, some wood, and accessories for all these things. These are needed items as we have to get our house ready to pass foster home licensing. We’re not going to get rid of all of our tools, so they need to be able to be securely closed away. Not having a propane deep fryer sitting in my dining room will be nice, too.

But while the $800 is only about 1/6 of what we spent on the basement work, it still feels big, too big for us. And maybe that’s my problem. With the basement work, sure we spent a lot of money, but we were paying professionals to come out and do this. I knew when the work was going to get done.

This is all on us. We spent $800, and if we don’t follow through, we’ve wasted $800.

Responsibility: Yes, it seems terrible that I do not trust us inherently to follow through on our intentions, but that lack of trust comes from a long history of knowing us. We have not followed through before. (And I really do mean us. This is as much a “me” issue as it is a C issue.)

And yet, there we were in Lowes this weekend, for three hours. We almost bought a new refrigerator, too. (The number of times we have almost bought a new refrigerator exceeds the number of fingers on one hand. Neither of us likes our fridge, but the placement of our over the fridge cabinets means we would have to replace it with one identical to it. We forget this about once every year to 18 months, and start looking at new refrigerators again.) The boys (C and J) had to run home and get J’s truck so that we could get everything back from the store.

We started at 1pm, without eating lunch, so by the time we left at 4pm, we went straight to Qdoba and got food. We are counting it as part of our home improvement budget.

Now, we’ve already followed through fairly well in that on Saturday evening, the storage cabinet got put together. On Sunday, the boys built the foundation for the garden shed, I packed up some bins, wrote down their inventories and labeled them. And on Sunday night, I put together the new shelves. In addition, yard work got done. Last night, the rest of the shed got built.

We’re older now. We are committed to the path we are on. I honestly do believe we will follow up on our home organization and that we will do it in a timely manner. I do not believe we wasted $800.

And yet, it was still an uncomfortable amount to spend in one weekend.

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Encore Presentation

Having yesterday off, combined with some unexpected medical news (ambiguous news that will lead to some more tests), capped off by a game night over at some friends’ house, I completely forgot that tonight I was supposed to put up a post.

So here’s a link to one of my old (pre-Yakezie) posts, that has been on my mind lately as a friend struggles with figuring out finances in her marriage- You Have to Talk About It.

Please enjoy the rerun, and I promise, we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled original programming on Thursday.

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Sunday Evening Post #39

Day

Amount

Place

Category

Monday

$12.93

Subway

Eating Out

Wednesday

$252.00

Court Fees

MIL

$35.88

Luisa’s

Eating Out

Saturday

$725.00

Lowes

House

$25.00

Qdoba

House

Sunday

$11.00

Starbucks

Allowance

$60.00

Home Depot

House

I have very little memory of this week. Monday I was home sick. Wednesday was probate and then running around to set up the estate account, then the birthday dinner for J. Friday C got us free tickets to the Tacoma Ballet through school so we went and saw that.

It was a spendy weekend. In order to have the house pass the inspection for the foster care license, we need to be able to lock away power tools and other dangerous materials- like paint. We spent 3 hours and over $700 at Lowes buying a garden shed and a storage cabinet and what seems like a million other small little things.

The base for the new garden shed

We then spent Saturday evening putting together the new storage cabinet and putting particle board in the attic. Sunday was spent doing yard work and building a base to put our new garden shed on. We have a good start, now we just actually need to make use of it all and get the basement and garage organized and safely stored away.

The new storage cabinet in the basement

I have six goals for 2012. As part of the Sunday evening posts, I am tracking those goals, kind of like I do for spending, in order to hold myself accountable.

1)      Be paid for publishing one piece of fiction

Submissions so far: 2

Responses: 1 rejection 1 acceptance

I need to get back to searching for markets for my already completed pieces.

2)      Make money publishing my next art/fiction book

This is on hold for now. I did, however, start a new website called The Prose Passage, which is focused on writing and critique. As of now, I haven’t added an AdSense to it, but I probably will.

3)      Attend FinCon12. Pay for the trip with money from allowance/side projects saved/earned BEFORE the conference starts. Goal: $600

My current balance is $45. I have already bought the ticket to FinCon12.

Our credit card points were being doubled or something for February and March. If we have another month or two like those, I will be able to pay for my entire plane ticket with credit card points. As it stands, right now I could buy a ticket with points and only $40 out of pocket. And it will be even less after the spending this weekend.

4)      Become a member of Yakezie (6 month anniversary is Jan 21)

I plan to be a member of Epsilon class when the application goes up in August. I do need to make sure I’m still connecting with new challengers, though, because a lot of the challengers on my list this last time will be Yakezie Delta class members.

5)      Make money from my blogs.

AdSense earnings: $20.42 (They won’t send me any money until I hit $100)

6)      Be healthier

I mowed the lawn on Saturday, in the midst of everything  Three hours on my feet on the cement floors of Lowes took a lot out of me. We dog parked on Friday. But healthy hasn’t been the watchword of this week. I need to get back on track.

The dogs wanted to help with the work

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What I’m Reading: Ask Me Anything Edition

There is no theme to the blogs I’m highlighting today, other than the fact that I like the blogs and the blog posts. I don’t even think my mind can concoct a convoluted way to connect them all, which is fine. It doesn’t change the fact that these are good blogs. You should read them.

 

Mr Money Mustache is all about extreme early retirement, and while it’s not what I am looking for, the site is full of useful advice, anyway. Since C and I have agreed we really want to limit the amount of TV our future child watches, this week’s post on Nearly Free Kids Toys that Keep on Giving was perfect. You can bet I’ve made notes.

Speaking of kids (trust me, this is a weak transition), I have a friend who is going through a lot of life changes right now, including a pregnancy. She and her husband and whole family are very excited. But while she has always been one of those financial over achievers, fully funding her ROTH IRA since age 20, she and her hubby have been struggling with some money issues, most specifically tracking their spending, since combining their finances. As part of this struggle, they’ve created credit card debt where she’s never carried a balance before. So, she closed the account. Right now, that is what works for her, but I do have to agree with Funancials, that you can Effectively Use Credit Cards.

As I have been posting about recently, I have student loans- both graduate and undergraduate. I got my degrees in 2000 and 2008. Let’s just say that I haven’t always made the smartest decisions around this. Which means I really wish I’d read Smart Family Finance’s post 4 Strategies for Dealing with Student Loans Now That You’ve Graduated 12 years ago.

Suba at Wealth Informatics also posted a strategy this week that I should have read 18 years ago, and 12 years ago, and 6 years ago, and should really keep reading every day, because as a procrastinator, I could really use her advice she gives in Want to be more productive? Create a NOT To-Do List.

There are a few blogs I could easily link to every week and not really feel all that bad about it. Average Joe’s Money Blog is one of those. Since we were speaking about getting things done (this transition actually makes a little more sense), I think it’s important that people find style that suits them best. In their Thursday Cuppa Joe Discussion, Average Joe and The Other Guy ask Getting Things Done or Ceativity: Which is More Important?

I love the posts where bloggers share more about themselves, which is why I love the post More About Me from Jeff of Sustainable Life Blog. I often think I should write a post like this, and then I read my posts and realize they are all pretty much like this. I don’t think there is anything about me my readers don’t know, or if there is, it’s stuff you probably wouldn’t find interesting, anyway.

But on that note, is there anything more you want to know about me? Have a burning question about the mistakes we’ve made, the time the dog actually ate my wallet, or anything? Ask away. I’d love to answer them.

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Windfall Planning

Windfall 1:I mentioned in Sunday’s post that we got an unexpected bit of windfall, in the form of a payout on a life insurance policy we did not expect to payout, and that we already had a plan for that money. In this case, it was an easy plan. Given that we are in the midst of the adoption process, an extra $10k will pretty much means we do not have to worry about how we are paying agency and attorney fees. On its own it will not cover all expenses, but combined with what we already have saved, we are good.

Normally, I would recommend that anyone who gets a windfall of over a couple thousand take more time to think about what they will do with that money. It is not exactly a life changing amount, but it is significant enough that you can either blow it, or make a difference. Given our current circumstances though, this was a pretty easy decision.

Windfall 2: What is not as easy a decision is what to do with the money we will get from the MIL’s condo. We are still in limbo land here. There is enough money in the estate and the life insurance payout we were expecting, to pay all of her medical bills and pay off the mortgage. The plan was to continue renting it out to our current tenants as long as they wish to stay, and then sell it, or sell it to the current tenants now, if that is what they want. We have talked to the tenants, and they are considering their options.

Windfall 2 Plan A: If we keep the condo, we will get $750/month in rent. $155 of that will go toward HOA fees. (Yes, they are ridiculously high.) We would then need to build up a reserve account to cover repairs, taxes, and holding costs once the current tenants decide to move until it could be sold. But a few thousand dollars should cover that, considering we will own the place free and clear. That is certainly not a bad return on investment. What exactly we would do with the extra each month, though, we have not decided. (Originally, it would have gone toward savings for adoption expenses.) It would likely get saved toward home improvement projects.

Windfall 2 Plan B: If we sell the condo, we could expect to walk away with around $30,000. That would be enough to totally redo our kitchen. That is not what C wants to do with his inheritance, though. What C would like to do with his inheritance, if we were to sell the condo, is pay off my student loans. I currently have about $36,000 left in student loans, so we could use the other money in savings and get rid of student loans entirely once the condo sells. Or we could not dip into savings, but using an aggressive strategy, still be done with all student loan payments by the end of the year. That would give us $710/month (what we are currently paying) back in the budget- with no strings attached.

Let me be honest- the thought of having my student loans just gone is incredibly tempting. At the same time, using C’s inheritance to pay them off bothers me. The debt is mine; the money is his. And even though we have combined finances since before we were even engaged, I still think about it this way.

I could see paying off the graduate student loans (about $20k) with the money. After all, me getting my MBA was a decision we both made. That was debt that was accrued while we were married, for both of our benefits. But I have a hard time thinking that his money should go toward my undergraduate loans. I graduated undergrad only 5 months after we started dating. It is most definitely my debt- not ours. Add to that the facts that the interest rate on my undergrad loans is 3.5%, and my current minimum payment is around $125/month (I pay $160), I am just not certain that being free of that debt should be our top priority. Besides, paying off my graduate student loans would still give us $550 back a month.

Either way we go, the theory is that we would then use the money we are saving each month to go toward, you guessed it, home improvement projects.

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Micro-Investing

Recently, the Jumpstart our Business Startups (JOBS) Act was passed. What is it? Well, in its most basic form, the JOBS act is micro-investing. Kind of like Prosper in that startups will be able to seek funding from the ordinary guy – not venture capitalists or angel investors or even the small business administration, but regular people like you and me – and pay them with stock options. Right now, there are a ton of regulations about who can invest in privately held companies. The JOBS act is looking to change that.

I’ll be honest; I’m kind of excited about this. I think it very likely that C and I will choose to invest some this way. We have a high risk tolerance and a lot of startups are going to be in the techie field where we know something about what they’re doing and possibly know people who know the people behind the companies. But I do not think it will revolutionize start-ups, at least not in the geeky fields.

Why? Because KickStarter has already done that.

You have heard of KickStarter, right? It operates on the exact same philosophy that the new JOBS Act does- it provides a place for start-ups or single projects to get funding. The difference right now is that the companies involved cannot pay their investors back in cash. It all has to be in product of some sort.

One of the reasons, in my mind, KickStarter works so well for video games and other geeky enterprises is that geeks are used to pre-ordering. You want to play the latest WoW expansion the moment its available? You pre-order, and you often pre-order months before, so that you know you will have your copy on day 1. “Investing” via KickStarter is a lot like pre-ordering, just way far in advance. C recently used some of his allowance to invest in two games he’s very excited about. One he invested at a higher rate at because it will come with a cloth map. C has a thing for cloth maps.

Both the games that C decided to invest in were already over their original target goal. One listed expanded goals (basically, more money means more content), and these game studios are being run by people in the business who know the business and the intellectual property they are looking at. (I believe C invested in the ShadowRun video game and the WasteLand sequel.)

Still, here’s a really neat thing about KickStarter- you don’t have to be a name (or own name IP) in order to get your funding. Now, this may be because most of the KickStarter projects we’re looking at are focused on geeks, and geeks our age tend to be somewhat successful and happy to support more geeky projects, but even the little guys are getting funded- and overfunded.

The Order of the Stick is a hilarious (at least if you’ve ever played D&D) web comic done by some guy. Really, he’s just some guy. When I started reading it, he was still in college, and he had some medical problems. He funded his website and even occasionally was able to print books of the comic. He decided this year that he would host a KickStarter fundraiser in order to raise money to reprint the book that has been out of print the longest. His goal- $57,750. I know, it sounds like a lot for what is essentially a giant comic book, but it is a 288 page, full color book. These are not inexpensive to print.

The drive was live on KickStarter for 30 days. Anyone want to guess how much money was pledged to the Order of the Stick Reprint Drive? Did you guess he got fully funded? You’d be right, but it was better than that. Maybe you guessed he got around $100,000, almost 2 times what he asked for. You would still be way off- and I mean way off.

In 30 days, what was essentially a pledge drive to raise funds to reprint copies of an online comic, raised over $1.25 million dollars- that’s right over 21 times what the original goal was.

And this is just a dude. Steve Jackson isn’t donating to this in order to be an NPC in a game. This is one guy who writes a web comic. His readers gave him this much money, in order to be able to spend money to buy the product. That’s right, most of the people who pledged do not even get a copy of the book out of it. (Though at the higher levels, people do.) One person donated at least $5,000, so that his D&D character could have a walk-on cameo in a future Order of the Stick cartoon.

You know me- I’m a fan of micro-lending (both charitable and for profit), micro-volunteering, micro-fiction, and now, micro-investing.

I expect that when the JOBS Act actually goes into effect, people will still need to be able to donate a couple thousand at a time in order to actually get any stock/monetary benefits. But if you only have $10 or $25 extra lying around, and you want to fund a creative project you’re interested in, check out KickStarter. It is crowdsourcing at it’s finest.

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Sunday Evening Post #38

Day

Amount

Place

Category

Monday

$23.25

Safeway

Groceries

$7.00

Cigarettes

Allowance

Wednesday

$125.31

Poppy

Eating Out

$105.30

Concert

Allowance

Thursday

$11.00

Subway

Eating Out

Friday

$172.10

CostCo

Groceries

$8.75

Half Price Books

School

Saturday

$14.00

Remedy Tea

Allowance

$31.00

Gas

Car

Sunday

$67.53

Lowes

House

$21.78

PetCo

Pets

Wednesday we hit one of the restaurants for Seattle Restaurant week. The total represents paying for J, as well, and he’ll pay us back.

We got called on Wednesday to find out if we wanted to attend an adoption training on Thursday night- it had been full, but they had some people cancel, so went ahead and did that, though it did cause us to eat out again. In fact, we’ve got another training tomorrow (they run 5-8pm), so we’ll likely grab something out again, then, too. Oh well, I knew this month would get us on the eating out.

Wednesday I also bought us tickets for a concert this summer. It’s at a venue we really like and are looking forward to it.

The cigarettes, in case you’re wondering, are C’s. He knows I don’t like him smoking, but it’s a stress reliever for him, and since his mother died just over a month ago, I’m not saying anything yet. We did, however, finally engage a lawyer (a friend) to start the probate process. Yay for one less thing I still have to think about.

Also on the good news front, we expected the MIL’s life insurance to only pay out on her two small policies. However, we sent in all three policy numbers, just in case. They paid out on the big policy, too- so we got a check on Friday for over twice what we were expecting from the life insurance. It’s not a huge amount, but it’s enough that we should pretty much have all out of pocket adoption expenses covered. I am certain that this would make the MIL very happy, and again, it is one less thing we have to think about.

my cherry blossoms

I have six goals for 2012. As part of the Sunday evening posts, I am tracking those goals, kind of like I do for spending, in order to hold myself accountable.

1)      Be paid for publishing one piece of fiction

Submissions so far: 2

Responses: 1 rejection 1 acceptance

I need to get back to searching for markets for my already completed pieces.

2)      Make money publishing my next art/fiction book

This is on hold for now. I did, however, start a new website called The Prose Passage, which is focused on writing and critique. As of now, I haven’t added an AdSense to it, but I probably will.

3)      Attend FinCon12. Pay for the trip with money from allowance/side projects saved/earned BEFORE the conference starts. Goal: $600

My current balance is $45. I have already bought the ticket to FinCon12.

Our credit card points were being doubled or something for February and March. If we have another month or two like those, I will be able to pay for my entire plane ticket with credit card points. As it stands, right now I could buy a ticket with points and only $70 out of pocket.

4)      Become a member of Yakezie (6 month anniversary is Jan 21)

I plan to be a member of Epsilon class when the application goes up in August. I do need to make sure I’m still connecting with new challengers, though, because a lot of the challengers on my list this last time will be Yakezie Delta class members.

5)      Make money from my blogs.

AdSense earnings: $20.42 (They won’t send me any money until I hit $100)

6)      Be healthier

Monday-Wednesday, I took salad to work for lunch. (I left early Thursday and Friday.) I don’t know that anything else we ate this week qualified as healthy, though the mango curry with chicken we had on Monday and the Hungarian style paprika chicken we had last night wasn’t too bad. And, thinking about it, our chicken and mozzarella raviolis in a pesto sauce on Friday were also probably on the healthier side.

I walked Monday-Wednesday at lunch, too. It felt really nice to get out of my office and not be sitting in a chair. The walks took maybe 15 minutes each, but it’s better than nothing.

I mowed the front yard on Saturday and the back yard on Sunday. Plus we went to the dog park Friday and Sunday.

my apple blossoms

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What I’m Reading: Welcome to Yakezie Edition

Not that I don’t love all of the blogs I regularly read, but this week I was looking for something a little different, something new. So I headed over the Yakezie member forums and went to see who the new challengers were. So today, I have six new (or at least new to me and to Yakezie) to share with you. I hope you enjoy them.

 

We start with a Family Bucket List over at Planning Makes Cents. I think it’s important for families to have these kinds of lists, but also to revisit them every once in a while, and to make sure that you do not pass up once in a lifetime opportunities just because they were not on your list. It’s nice to have goals, but let life surprise you once in a while.

Not too far south of me, Frugal Portland experienced what I’m afraid to tell her, will probably be the first of many frugal failures when it comes to Buying a Birthday Present. C used to have to tell me that I should not buy myself anything in the few weeks before my birthday and Christmas (before we reached the agreement that he does not have to get me anything for birthday or Christmas). Still, it was a great gift she got her boyfriend, and hopefully she will get some of her Amazon dollars back.

If you are a regular (or even semi-regular) reader of this blog, you know I work in the medical field. I am a big proponent of having insurance and understanding how your insurance works. Bog of Debt is feeling the pain of not having dental benefits before now in her post High Cost of Not Having Insurance Part 1 (and I must admit, I’ve been there, too.) And because I’m me, you should also check out his pictures of her adorable cat.

I had heard from other bloggers who blog professionally, or at least have blog based professions, that something big had happened in the Google-sphere recently that caused a big dip in advertising revenues and such. I really had no idea what had happened until I read Housewife Empire’s excellent post Biggest Internet Changes to Date- Grab Your Crash Helmet. Thank you for the explanation, Nell. It all makes so much more sense to me now.

Back to the “as regular readers know” kind of thing, my mother-in-law recently passed away. So I have an idea of what Kurt from Money Coun$elor and his family are going through right now. I absolutely loved his tribute to his father-in-law- Have a Back-up Plan.

And finally, we have So Help Me Todd, where Todd had The Month of Trying Everything. He has been investigating some new ways to make money, which I do not think distracts from his goal of starting a non-profit at all, as even non-profits need money to keep running. I wish him the best of luck in all of his endeavors.

 

I really enjoyed this little experiment of mine, and I think I’ll be returning to it every couple of months or so. I hope I had the chance to introduce some of you to a new blog or two that you will start reading regularly.

Edited because my reading comprehension is poor this week and I accidentally listed Bog of Debt as a “him” instead of a “her”. My apologies.

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Paying for Past Mistakes or Why We’re Not Refinancing

The Question: In Tuesday’s post about what to do with my raise, I mentioned that our mortgage is at a 6% APR. Naturally, one of the first questions I was asked was why in the world don’t we refinance our mortgage? Considering current interest rates, we could be saving a ton.

I’ll be honest. I would love to refinance our house, but right now, it just is not a viable option. We are paying for our past financial mistakes.

 

Our History: We bought our first house in summer 2003. We started getting credit card offers, and we took advantage of them. When we sold that house in early 2005, we sold it at a profit. We had money that could go toward the down payment of our new house, but we also had pretty significant credit card debt. Our new lender, instead of asking for more down payment decided they would instead make it a requirement of our loan that we use money from the sale of our first house to pay off the credit cards. That was fine with us, as we knew we had gotten in over our heads.

6% was not the prime rate, even then, but we were not prime customers, and it was still pretty good.

We live in the house we bought in 2005. At the time, the sale price was $241,950. We put less than 3% down. We paid PMI. In the summer of 2007, after having paid PMI for two years, we were allowed by the terms of our mortgage to have the house value reassessed to determine if we still had PMI. By that time, the value of our home had risen to over $300k and the PMI was gone.

A house just about a block away from us, that was a total fixer, had just sold for around $300k as someone’s flip project. The 800 square foot house next door was bought by a developer, knocked down, and a mini-Taj Mahal was being built next door to us. Everything looked rosy. We all know how that turned out.

Our Present: The house around the corner that had sold as a flip for $300k went into foreclosure. It sold at the end of 2011 for $77,000. The Taj Mahal next door was meant to be a million dollar property, but it was finished just as the market started to tank. It was purchased for $850k. Zillow puts its current value at $538k. Chase (my lender) puts its value at $424k.

As for our house, Chase estimates its value at $205k. Zillow is much less generous and estimates it is worth $165k. We still owe $207k.

While we could pay down the principle to get to what our lender thinks the house is worth, we would not be able to refinance without paying PMI again. The days of the 80% mortgage, 20% home equity loan (which is how we bought our first house) are gone.

PMI would pretty much eat up every bit of savings we’d get from a lower interest rate, and if you add closing costs to the equation, well, we do not come out ahead, at least not for a long while.

But, my home loan savvy readers might say, you are the perfect candidate for HARP. It is for owners like you- not behind on payments or anything, but a program to let you refinance to today’s great rates where, if you are not currently paying PMI, you do not have to start. In fact, HARP was recently re-written to allow underwater homeowners to be able to access it too.

The problem here is that to qualify for HARP, your mortgage must be owned by Fannie or Freddie. Our loan is not. In fact, it cannot be.

Go back to 2005. Our mortgage agent with Chase was also a family friend. Even at that time, she was noticing a disturbing trend of mortgages being packaged and sold, and she had heard numerous complaints about companies like Country Wide, which were doing a lot of the buying. So, in order to protect us, she wrote a clause into our mortgage saying that Chase cannot sell it. I think overall, this has been a great benefit to us, but right now, it kind of screws us.

Our Future: So here we are, with interest rates of 6% on home we’re at least a little underwater on, and no chance of refinancing without PMI. I would like to say that the Seattle housing market is going back up or even just stabilizing. In fact, there was an article on MSN just last week claiming that Seattle is a market with slim pickings, where prices and competition for houses is rising again. It lies. I’ve been tracking the Seattle market for a few years now (I love looking at houses), and the truth is, in the really desirable neighborhoods, where prices really did not fall that much, houses are still sitting on the market for quite a while. In the more affordable neighborhoods (like mine) prices are rock bottom and houses still sit on the market for quite some time. According to Zillow, the estimate on my house has dropped by $30k just since January.

What that means is that I cannot count on paying PMI for just two years and having my house reappraised to get rid of it, even if we make substantial improvements.

We are not hurting. By getting rid of the PMI and shopping around for better insurance, we now pay $200/month less on our mortgage payment than when we did when we bought the house. In addition, we are actually paying more “extra” toward the balance than we were when we had the higher house payment. We have never missed a payment or even been late (auto-debit) and have never even been concerned that we would not be able to make our payment.

Yes, it would be nice to be paying less interest. It would be nice to have some extra money right now to save toward adoption/future child expenses. But we do not need the money. So, we will keep making our payments. We will watch the market, and maybe in a few years, we will refinance. Or maybe not.