The Dog Ate My Wallet

The Dog Ate My Wallet

Personal Finance in a World of Excuses

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An Introduction of Sorts

I started this blog with the assumption that the only people who read it would be people who already knew me. But now that I’ve joined the Yakezie Challenge, I figured that maybe I should introduce myself.
Since this is a personal finances blog, lets stick with the things that are most relevant to that.
Demographics:
Mid-30s, married, 2 dogs, homeowner (or mortgage holder, whatever you want to call it), 2 cars- both paid for, living in the greater Seattle area.
Job:
Healthcare administration.  I like my job, but also have a plan about where I want to go next and when (2-3 years from now depending). Salary: $81k/yr
Education:
BA- History
MBA
Both paid for by student loans
Debt:
Mortgage: $210k @6%, a little over 6 years in (30 year term)
Student Loans: 16.2k @3.5%, 11.3k @6.55%, 13.2k @5.55%
Home repair: 3.2k @0%
I am currently the sole earner for our household. My husband was laid off back in 2009. He worked for the Census summer of 2010, but otherwise had 2 interviews in the over 2 years he was out of work and looking for a job. He’s now back in school full time and will graduate with a BA in summer 2012. There’s a chance he’ll go back for a BS, which should take one more year, so be done spring 2013.
We’re paying for his schooling out of pocket right now, but wouldn’t be adverse to subsidized federal student loans (no interest charged while in school, 3.4% 6 months after completing.)
When my husband first lost his job, we went on a 9 month crash budget in order to get our car paid off. It was our single biggest monthly payment outside the mortgage, and we knew we could live on my salary alone (at the time is was under $60k/yr) without that expense. During that 9 months, we lived in fear that unemployment benefits would go away.
Once we go the car paid off, we got everything else other than my student loans and the house paid off. Then we started saving big time. For the last year, all of his UE checks went to make larger payments on the SL debt and toward savings.
We saved enough money to have work done on our basement in order to prevent it from flooding again. (It has flooded at least once every winter since we bought the house.) Even though we could have paid for it all at once, we chose to go with 1 year same as cash financing in order to maintain an emergency fund. We make equal payments every month so the debt will be gone within the 1 year time frame.
With him back in school and paying out of pocket for that, we’re currently just making minimums (or just over minimum) payments on the rest of our debt. I am excited for September, when I will finally owe less on my undergraduate student loans than I borrowed, 11.5 years after I graduated.
It was about 6 months after my husband laid off that I started getting really interested in personal finance, or maybe it was then that my stress levels reached the breaking point. Either way, January 2010 was when I joined a personal finance message board looking for support and new ideas about how to manage our situation.
Life was made immensely easier in July 2010 when I got a promotion. 2 full years after I graduated with my MBA, I finally started my first post MBA job. I now make on my own about as much as my husband and I did combined when we bought our current house.
Still, it feels like we have less money, and not just because we were used to the UE checks. Now, we’re on a budget. Nothing goes on the credit cards that can’t be paid off before interest is due. We each get a monthly allowance for spending cash. We say no to a lot of things that sound like fun because our financial priorities are elsewhere.
We know we can afford the lifestyle we’re living. We save for car repairs and vacations. We use credit card rewards for gift certificates and money off travel.
I wouldn’t say we are financially free, but we have a lot more financial freedom than ever before.
And one more thing to note: while I am financially conservative, I am politically liberal (with a capital L). It comes up occasionally, and I like people to know my biases from the beginning.
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New Sunday Evening Post

Since I need to grow readership for the Yakezie Challenge, I’m going to add a Sunday evening blog post in to the rotation.
We do most of our spending over the weekend, so the Sunday evening post (sounds like a newspaper, doesn’t it) will focus on what we have spent from Friday after I get off work through Sunday. This will be where I post what we spent on groceries, but also if we go out for a meal or some form of entertainment.
As a note, we also do the grocery shopping for my MIL. Sometimes, if we’re only picking up one or two things for her at a store, we just pay for it. If we’re picking up just one or two things for us from a store where we’re mostly buying her items, she pays for them. I will do my best to account for the cost of items she pays for that we use in our cooking, but I won’t always have that information.
Friday
Shopping:
CostCo: $65.43 – all groceries and only 2 impulse buys- hummus (for my cousin) 5.99 and chicken sausage for 8.99. DH often makes his own sausage using ground turkey. For the times when he would do that, he’ll be able to use this sausage instead.
Music Downloads for Rock Band 3: $44.99
Dinner:
Nachos  $2.78 total ($0.93/person)
½ package ground turkey ($1.91)
1/16 of a block of cheese ($0.87)
Tortilla chips (free – they were stale and otherwise would have been thrown out)
Olives & jalenpenos (bought by the cousin in exchange for her hummus)
Activities:
Dog Park
Played Rock Band 3
Watched Labyrinth on DVD (we own it)
Saturday
Breakfast: Cereal
Lunch: Nachos (new batch – but having this plan in advance prevented us from eating at the food court in the mall after the movie)
Dinner: Sausage and Bell Pepper over Penne (all of these were things we’d bought at least a week ago, so I don’t have the costs)
Activities:
Harry Potter 7b for 3 people: $18
Rock Band 3
Dog Park
Watched Secret of NIMH (Netflix download)
Sunday
Shopping: Groceries for the MIL only
Breakfast: Waffles w/ whipped cream (the waffles were homemade, the whipped cream was out of a can. I don’t have costs as the waffles are made out of staples and the whipped cream has been in the fridge for over a month)
Lunch: Red Robin (MIL paid)
Dinner: Snacks (lunch was eaten at 4pm)
Activities:
Rock Band 3
Phone shopping (you don’t want to know)
Board games
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Yakezie Challenge

I’ve joined the Yakezie challenge, since Jana over at Daily Money Shot seems to be so happy she did.

My current Alexa rating is 7,121,869. The goal is to get to under 200,000 in the next 6 months. Yikes! Well, I like goals and challenges, so 200,000, here we come!

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Giving up Cable (and what we’ll do with the savings)

Our Comcast bill has never been cheap. But 2 years ago when the hubby lost his job, we were paying $150/month. We called them and switched to a smaller package, reducing our monthly cost about around $30- not a whole lot, I know, but it gave us some breathing room. Except that, it was only down by $30 for about 3 months. Then it started climbing back up again. By 9 months after we’d lowered our package, our monthly cost was back at $150/month. And there it stayed. Apparently, if you have cable and internet from Comcast, your bill needs to be $150/month. It doesn’t actually matter what channels you get, I don’t know.
But here’s what’s funny. We’ve decided to give up our cable television. For now, we’ll keep cable internet, but we’re working on clearing out our DVR so that the TV programming can go bye bye. That should save us about $100/month. Shortly after we made that decision, our cable bill went down. This month, it was less that $140. No idea why, just suddenly, $10 less than last month.
We may replace cable with satellite come the fall (and the new season of Mythbusters, the only one of my shows that I can’t figure out how to get online), but in the meantime, we’re going to see how happy we are with Netflix and possibly the paid Hulu. Since we already have Netflix, that means we’ll still save around $90/month.
Now, I just have to figure out what to do with that $90. Well, that’s not really true. I obsess over our budget. That $90 is going in to savings so that we have a good cushion for paying for the husband’s college courses and are able to take the couple mini-vacations I have planned without any debt.
Then, once the savings levels are a little higher, the dollars can go toward my graduate student loans.

I know they aren’t exciting plans, but the important part is to have the plan. Otherwise, our eating out budget would just go up $90/month when there’s absolutely no need for it

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Some gadgets are worth it

Our kitchen is full of gadgets. The hubby just got a waffle maker for his birthday. At Christmas, I got him an immersion blender. We have gadgets. Lots of gadgets.
But while we like our gadgets, there are only two that have permanent places on our counter tops- and the toaster is not one of them.
No, our two can’t live without gadgets are the rice maker and our electric kettle. And I could probably live without the electric kettle if I absolutely had to. But the loss of the rice maker would be an emergency situation.
So why is this on my budget blog? Here’s the thing, gadgets expensive, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t worth it. I would say that our rice cooker has saved us money in the long run because it makes it really easy to make rice, and therefore makes it easy to make dinner on nights when we don’t have much energy- throw rice in the rice cooker, grab a can of cream of mushroom and bam, quick, easy dinner, for probably less than $0.50 per person.
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Chicken and Waffles

I am constantly inspired by Mrs. C at Another Housewife. In fact, I think, thanks to her, that in August I am going to challenge myself to posting everything we spend that comes out of our grocery budget, and maybe even figure out the cost of our meals at home.
I love the pictures she posts of her family’s weekly meal, too, and so I am sharing this:

About a month ago, the husband got it in his head that he wanted a waffle maker. I convinced him to wait (after all, his birthday was coming up). He agreed and had the plan to spend birthday money on a waffle maker. Well, none of the expensive ones really spoke to him, and my mother mentioned that she happened to have a waffle maker she bought at a garage sale that she’d never used. So, she sent it up to us.
The first night we had it, he made chicken and waffles. And, yes, it was delicious.
We did spend money on good syrup, but otherwise, the meal was inexpensive. We always have chicken in the house as its our main protein. I bought buttermilk for the pancakes, but we think we could get away with just using our favorite Krusteaz mix in the future.
And the syrup certainly doesn’t cost more (and lasts longer) than the mango we buy for chicken with mango curry. I’m thinking this recipe is a keeper.
And, as an added bonus, the hubby now has a waffle maker and it didn’t cost us anything- not even his birthday money.
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If I Had $1,000,000

This week, I’m letting myself be inspired by some of my favorite bloggers. Today’s inspiration originally comes from Yes, I Am Cheap, but I got it via Jana at Daily Money Shot.
                       
If I had $1,000,000
The theory isn’t that I win the lottery (you have to play to win, after all), but instead get an unexpected inheritance.
1) Set aside 25% for taxes. This is not exciting or anything, but I don’t want a surprise bill coming early next year. If we owed less, then great, but I would want to be able to pay. Given current CD rates, I’d still probably be better off stashing this in my high yield savings account (a whole 1.25%APR, but better than most things out there), and at least I’d get some interest out of it. Plus, if taxes are less than that, we’ve added to our emergency fund.
Total remaining: $750,000
2) Pay off all our debt. Right now that’s about $260,000 and includes house and my student loans.
Total remaining: $490,000
3) Set aside $100,000 for education. My husband is currently back in school and will have his BA in a little over a year. We’re currently set up to be able to pay for all of his schooling out of pocket. But he is considering getting a BS afterwards and possibly going to grad school. That’s expensive.
Plus, I’d like it if my cousin could get out of school without loans. So if there was money left over, it would go help pay for her schooling
Total remaining: $390,000
4) Buy a new house. The deals you can get in our area in the current market are amazing. A home I LOVE** is on the market for $220,000, but we’ve got the money, so we could dream a little bigger. I’m thinking $300,000 for a house. I figure since we’d be bringing cash to the table, we could get one that was listed for a little bit more, or even use it on a down payment and get a 10 year mortgage for someplace like this**.
Total remaining: $90,000
5) Remodel our current house. I don’t think it will take all $90,000, but you should always over budget for remodels. And you may be wondering why I’d remodel if I’ve bought a new house. Right now, in our neighborhood, landlords are getting rents that rival mortgage payments. I would like to rent out our current house, but it needs some work done so that it can command the higher rents.
That, and the nicer I make it now, the easier it will be to sell later, if I need to.
If any money is left over, it gets shuttled in to savings to cover property taxes.
Total remaining: $0
Now, you may think, I didn’t do any long term planning here- I haven’t bumped up my retirement savings. I haven’t invested in the stock market, etc. And that’s true, but what I have done is cleared my budget of $2,100/month in debt payments and set myself up for having an income property that could easily generate $1,750/month. Even setting aside ½ of the rental income to cover property maintenance and taxes (which is a really high estimate considering we just would have had $90k worth of work done on the house), I’ve essentially increased my monthly income by about $3,000.
Now, maybe I’ve taken out a 10 year mortgage on a small balance on a house, but that’s still going to take less than $1k/month, and I’m still up $2k/month. That’s $24,000 per year- its like the take home pay on any job the husband would get.
And this is all over and above what we live on now, so it can be funneled in to investment accounts and savings for some great trips.
Plus, if we were to want to move, we would no longer be upside down in any house, and would actually have the ability to keep both houses (two rental properties) and still buy a new place where ever we moved to.
**If these links no longer work, its because the house is no longer on the market.
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It Costs More to be Poor

There’s a cost to being poor in this country. For those of us who are solidly middle class, who have the cash or even the credit to buy quality goods, its often not something we even think about. If my options are to buy something for $10 that will last one year, or buy something for $15 that will last 2 years, obviously its less expensive to by the $15 version. Paying more now saves us money in the long run.
But what about the people who don’t have that extra $5 today? In the long run, they pay $5 more than the person who did. But it still seems cheaper to them, because that’s what they can afford today. (This is how Wal-Mart stays in business.)
You may scoff at $5, tell me that someone who can’t come up with an extra $5 deserves what they get. I’d disagree, as I’ve been in spots where I didn’t have an extra $0.05, let along $5, but how about on a bigger scale.
In March we had to replace our tires. If I had been paying attention, I would have known this was coming up and planned specifically for it. But I wasn’t paying attention, so it caught us a little off guard.
I was given a choice of tires. The least expensive was $600. The most expensive was $800. This is not an inexpensive purchase to begin with, though a necessary one. There are many, many people who can’t afford that extra $200. The problem? Paying an extra $200 now saves $600 in the future.
How does my math work? The $600 tires were warranted for 30k miles. The $800 tires were warranted for 70k miles. So over the next couple of years, as I drive 70k miles, I could either pay $800 today and be done, or I could pay $600 today, $600 at 30k miles, and $600 again at 60k miles. Even pro-rating, I’ve used 1/3 of the tires life at 70k, so the tires at 60k have cost me $200 at 70k miles.
Let’s do the math:
600+600+200=$1,400
$1,400>$800
1,400-800=$600.
There we have it. Over 70k miles, I can spend $800 on my tires or I can spend $1,400 on them. The problem with the way this math works with reality is that the poorer I am, the more likely I am to have to pay the $1,400.
And while tires are an easy example to use because of the mileage warranty and the big numbers, I know tires aren’t an every day purchase. But groceries are. Think of how much you can save by being able to afford a CostCo membership, by buying in bulk.
We all know its cheaper to buy in bulk. But what happens when you have a specific amount of money for groceries that you can’t go over for the month, like people on food stamps? It may only cost $15 to buy 10lbs of chicken where 5lbs costs $10, so you know the 10lbs is the better buy. But if your full allotment of grocery money is already accounted for buying milk, bread, canned veggies, etc, where does that extra $5 come from?
The answer is, you spend $10 on 5lbs of chicken, because that’s what you need this month, and that’s what you can afford. And next month, you’ll spend $10 on 5lbs of chicken again.
There is a hidden cost to being poor in this country, a cost that can make it exceedingly difficult to save or get ahead, through no fault of their own.
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You’re not saving money if…

When it comes to sales, you aren’t saving money unless it was something you already intended to buy. If you weren’t going to buy it before, you did not save 25% of the price, you spent 75% of it.
I know this. This is how my thinking worked even before I started paying attention to sales and coupons, etc. And yet, sometimes things still get me.
I have signed up for Groupon, Living Social, Amazon daily deals, and even Doggy Loot. I rarely purchase something through them, but it has made it affordable to do some things I would have liked to do but never would have paid full cost for.
And unless I am looking for something in particular (stuff to do while relatives visit, fulfilling a promise to a friend, etc), I am in general very good at ignoring the deals in my inbox. After all, I’m not saving any money, I’m spending an acceptable amount.
Recently, however, I was tempted- tempted like I’ve never been by a coupon.
Confession time: I was in middle school when New Kids on the Block were big, and I was a fan. And I don’t mean casual. I was a fan in the way that preteen girls are fans- obsessive and devoted. I have all their albums, two of their videos, and even bought a ticket to a concert I had no way to get to. Oh how I loved them.
NKOTB is back on tour. They are playing a location near me this Friday. This is the second time in the last couple of years and the second time I have resisted going. But then I got the Groupon in my inbox, the one that had 50% off tickets to go see them…
I clicked on the deal. I did. I clicked on it. I was tempted, so very, very tempted.
But then I saw the price. $52 dollars for a ticket. $52 was the half off price! When I was in middle school, I had to save my babysitting money to afford the $20-30 tickets. Now, $104?
I know their fans are older and can afford more. I know concerts cost more. I do. But $104 for a concert ticket? A single show, not even festival entrance. I can’t do it.
I’ll be honest, if the original price of the ticket had been $52 and the sale price was $26, I’d be at the NKOTB concert this Friday night. I would have spent $26 and I would have enjoyed every second of the show (though maybe not the drive home). But $52- no, especially not when you’re claiming this is half off. I can’t do it. I can’t.
No matter how big my crush on Jordan Knight was.
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Transitions

Every week for the last 6.5 years, money has “magically” appeared in our checking account every Friday (give or take a day). When my husband was working, we were both paid every other week, but on opposite weeks. While he was getting unemployment, a check came every week.
I LOVE budgeting with a weekly income. I love it. I find it to be the easiest budgeting I’ve ever done.
But now we’re in a transition phase. Unemployment is over. This is the first week there won’t be a check on Friday.
Now I make enough, as much as we used to make combined, so I know we have enough money, but now it only “appears” every two weeks, and I have to get used to that.
We are, once again, at the difference between a budget and cash flow. There is enough money in the month to pay all the bills- budget. But now I have to work to make sure the money is there at the right time- cash flow.
I really noticed this today as I was doing the cash flow projections for August. In the first 4 days of the month, we have $2,600 due in various bills. That is more than one of my paychecks. That means that I not only have to have all the money from my last paycheck of the previous month available, there still has to be money left over from the first paycheck of the month, too.
Now, September is a three paycheck month, so that will actually make it pretty easy to build in the cushion we need, but it was a bit of a shock really looking at the numbers.