Don’t Let Money be the Reason You Never…
I randomly have thoughts about what I should write a post about, but by the time I get a chance to sit and write, the ideas are all gone. I need to start writing them down, to seize the opportunities that present themselves, because they may never come this way again.
Which is actually what I want to talk about today.
So often, we, especially the “we” that write personal finance blogs are all about the saving or something, the not doing it until the money is right. Unfortunately, sometimes the right money and the right timing don’t mix. Other times, an amazing opportunity falls into your lap, but you don’t currently have the money to pay for it. I say, seize the opportunity, anyway.
Not Letting the Debt Monster Hold You Back
Back in 2008, I was in grad school getting my MBA, and paying for it completely with student loans. You could say the money certainly wasn’t right- perhaps I even should have put off grad school. But I didn’t (and I’m glad), and as a requirement for my degree, I had to have an “international experience”- generally a weeklong trip hosted by one of the program professors. This trip was paid for as part of our tuition. You read that right, the trip was already covered by our tuition.
The school was smart enough to realize, though, that for a lot of us, this would be one the few times in our lives we would get to travel to these locations, so they had no problems with students making changes to their reservations, or even booking their own flights and getting reimbursed. Because I chose the Ireland trip, this was a chance for C and I to go to Ireland/England for essentially half cost. My plane ticket was already paid for, so we just had to pay for his and for lodging. Lodging was covered by doing a timeshare exchange.
So we were paying for my masters with $40k in student loans. We had credit card debt and an $800/month car payment. And you know what- we went to England for a week, and didn’t worry about what we spent. And neither of us have any regrets.
It was indeed the trip of a lifetime. And while we hope to make it back to England, and get him to Ireland, I will always be glad we took that opportunity.
Paying Last Minute Prices is OK
In 2010, the Winter Olympics were being held in Vancouver, Canada. We lived in Seattle, but knew how hard it was going to be to get tickets, so we didn’t even put our names in the hat. But a friend of ours was working in Vancouver at the time, and he did put in for tickets to some events. He was down visiting the Seattle crew one weekend and mentioned that he had an extra ticket for a hockey game that Thursday. The friend who would normally go with him (also living in Seattle) couldn’t get the time off work. Did I want to go? Did I? An Olympic hockey game. You bet.
I went home that night and booked Amtrak tickets from Seattle to Vancouver. I had to take the Amtrak bus on the way up, and the train back only had 1st Class tickets left (they were only $20 more expensive than regular tickets so it wasn’t like with flights). I booked it.
I went to work on Monday and told my boss- I have the opportunity to go to the Olympics. I need Thursday and Friday off. She agreed that it wasn’t something I could turn down, and we made sure everything was set for my last minute trip.
Finland vs Belarus didn’t have very many NHL stars. It wasn’t a hugely attended game. But it was fun. And simply getting to spend time in Vancouver during the games was worth it. Plus, I can totally now recommend paying the little bit extra for first class Amtrak tickets.
Life Doesn’t Happen on Your Schedule
Opportunities often don’t ask you when would be a good time for you. They come at their own pace, on their own timelines. Sometimes they will come at the perfect moment, and sometimes at the worst possible moment.
You do not have to take every opportunity that comes your way. But I ask that you consider it, and that you don’t let not being in the perfect place, financially, not be what holds you back. Sure if this is something that will come again, skip it, but if it really is a once in a lifetime, or even once in a decade, opportunity, see if you can make it happen.
Human being are wired a funny way. We will always regret not taking action more than we will taking action- even if not doing anything is actually the statistically best option.
That means that even if the smart and prudent choice is to stay home and keep saving, or plugging away at debt, you are much more likely to regret not taking the chance than you are to regret the added time to meeting your financial goals.
And you know what, I think that’s fine. Live life. Seize Opportunity. And have a hell of a great time doing it.
Amen to that! Especially going to the hockey game.
Tomorrow is never guaranteed and you have no clue what can happen between now and the "time you allow yourself to spend the money". Too much emphasis is put on saving every single penny, cutting everything out of life now so that you can put all that savings toward tomorrow, it's ridiculous. There are too many unknowns to not allow yourself to experience life while you can.
I know! And the hockey game was relatively inexpensive. I had the PTO to cover the time off work. I only had to pay for the train tickets and a meal or two for myself and my host. He had paid for the tickets and I stayed at his place.
We cannot live for tomorrow. If we do, life will pass us by.
I absolutely love this paragraph: "Opportunities often don’t ask you when would be a good time for you. They come at their own pace, on their own timelines. Sometimes they will come at the perfect moment, and sometimes at the worst possible moment." Straight forward and to the point. We're the ones that have to take the opportunity or leave it.
Yes, and if it's a rare opportunity, don't let money be the only decision maker.
I agree with you as long as it doesn't become a way to justify everything. If it is once in a great while then it is OK but if it is weekly you can get yourself in a lot of trouble.
And that's why I'm talking about the once in a decade/lifetime opportunities. If it's the opportunity to go to the bar with your friends, you can do that next week. If it's an annual trip, you can go next year. You need to evaluate each opportunity, but if it really is something rare, something you have no idea when you'd ever have a chance to do it again, don't let money be the only deciding factor.
I've never heard of anyone saying on their deathbed "I wish I would have worked a little more overtime."
I think the key here is choices. You knew that by spending more there would be a cost at the back end (you wouldn't be debt free as quickly). By actually weighing the costs, you made some intelligent decisions about experiences you couldn't pass up. I think many people make those same financial moves but never weigh the costs. Therefore, they have experiences when they're young but spend the rest of their lives paying for them and regretting them.
Yes and no. I think I would have been okay with more student loan debt than I have if I had been able to do a semester abroad in undergrad. I really wanted to, but I never had my act together enough to do it.
But yes, the important part is conscious decision making- knowing wht you are trading and why., and knowing if it is worth it to you.
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I love this last words from you. "Live life. Seize Opportunity". I think inspite of that you are doing great. Living life to the fullest is the best thing that we can do while living on the earth.
Thank you
Those are great examples of rare events when taking on a little debt isn't such a bad thing. Borrowing to buy a new release DVD? Not so much. Going to the Olympics? For sure. 🙂