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A Walk Around the Blogs: Inside My Thoughts

March 23, 2013 | Filed under: Round Ups

I know, I know, I skipped last week. That’s because, for various reasons, I did not really read any blogs last week. I barely got my own posts up. However, that does leave me with two full weeks of great blog posts to pull from for this week.

This week’s theme is “Things I’ve been thinking about, too.” And mostly, it’s a reminder that you don’t want to live in my head.

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I am a sports fan. Hockey is my favorite professional sport, so I’m pretty happy right now, but I am also a big football fan- enough so that I follow some of these last minute trades, free agency signings, and rules changes. (No more Tuck Rule!) But as much as I love football, I have to agree with Money Beagle– Don’t Ever Ask An NFL General Manager For Money Advice.

I have written a few times that one of my “secrets” for having time to “do it all” (especially as it relates to blogging) is that I value my time and prioritize. Could I have sat down last Saturday and put together a round up even though I hadn’t read anything all week? Yes. But I didn’t, because there were other ways I wanted to spend my time. Len Penzo (who freely admits I’ve been doing 100 Words On longer) had a great entry in his 100 Words series this week: Why Time is More Valuable than Money.

There’s a lot of change going on in my life right now. Most of it for the good but at times of change, I’m always rather introspective, and while I am an optimist by nature, I always make myself look at the worst case scenario and deal with my fears. Acknowledging those fears always makes me feel better. It turns out, the same is true for Buck Inspire, who last week wrote about his Greatest Fears. He felt better just getting it down on paper.

At work, everything is in flux. Everyone is stressed to no end. Another round of layoff is coming (notices go out next week) and almost no one feels safe. And when I’m feeling work stress, I almost always turn to What Your Boss Really Thinks. This week, she wrote about How to Confront Bullying at Work. And while we haven’t had any accusations of that during this time, it did remind me of how important informal chains of command are. One of my roles is to be the outside manager. If a staff member has an issue they don’t feel they can go to their boss with and doesn’t want to go to HR, they can come to me.

And finally, in the new to me category, we have the blog A Young Pro. He as a post about Finding Your Passion. Considering this weeks 100 Words On Your Money post was about a conversation over on the Your Money boards about passion and finding passion in your life, it connects very strongly with where my head had been this week. I will always believe that living my dream life is better than working my dream job, but it’s never had to have passion. (Though you also shouldn’t feel like you’re inadequate if you haven’t found your passion yet, or if it changes.)

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When it comes to the dogs, I haven’t been thinking about quite as many different things, in fact, we’ve kind of been pretty focused on health issues and food. But so have most of my pet blogging friends. It’s like a hive mind. Seriously though, it’s great to have a place to share what we’re going through and know that others really do understand.

We’re going to start by sending our best wishes out to lovely little Bella of Bringing Up Bella. She’s developed a mystery limp, but her mom and dad are doing everything they can and taking her to a neurologist. Here’s hoping for a good news update soon.

In the new to me category, over at Bark and Chatter, adorable little Finn just when in for routine surgery but naturally, while there, other things were discovered and needed to be dealt with. He came out with three different incisions, poor little guy. He was Down for the Count on Friday, but here’s hoping he’s back to his happy little self soon.

We have also been obsessing over food, what with Howie’s kidney failure and June’s suspected pancreatitis. It turns out, we will need to feed Howie prescription kibble because we just can’t make anything quite so low on phosphorous. He also has to have very limited protein. Not that we were going to do raw feeding anyway, but the restriction on protein really means that neither of the classic raw models (BARF and whole prey) would work for us. Still it was nice to see Lindsay at That Mutt give a nice rundown of raw dog food. (It helped me feel good about our feeding plans.)

At Dog is God in Reverse, Kari gets to brag about feeding four very different dogs the same food. It’s not actually a brag. They had to go to a lot of work to find a food that would work for all their different dogs. When we just had Moree and Smokey it was hard to find one food that worked for two dogs. I can’t imagine trying to figure it out with four.

But finally, on a happy and fun note, because really, the point of our dogs is that they bring us joy, is this great story from Tales and Tails about The Battle For Couch Occupation. It’s hard going up against a dog who is better than you are at getting what they want, and Bunny, she’s the queen. I wouldn’t want to match wits with her. At our house, it’s about bed space. We’ll make poor Larry move because we know he’ll just get right back up once we’re settled. Junebug actually gets gently lifted or moved along the bed to where she’s out of the way (the joy of having a hound much smaller than a Greyhound). Howie on the other hand is never moved. C and I will jigsaw ourselves around the old man when he wants to be on the bed.

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14 Responses to "A Walk Around the Blogs: Inside My Thoughts"

  1. Lindsay says:
    March 23, 2013 at 11:13 am

    Thank you for the mention!

  2. Buck Inspire says:
    March 23, 2013 at 1:55 pm

    Thanks for including me! Looks like we have more in common than just being introspective. What did you think of the Boldin and Walker trades? Good luck going through your company's layoffs. I've been through a few. Not fun, but it sounds like your heads in a good place. Have you found your life passion or just having fun getting there?

    1. ErinShanendoah says:
      March 23, 2013 at 3:17 pm

      To understand my reaction to the Boldin and Welker trades, you must know I'm a lifelong Raiders fan (because of my hatred of the Broncos) who lives in Seattle and happily roots for the home team. BUT, I am also a graduate of the University of Nevada, Reno (where Kaepernick played.) So, I am excited by the prospect of the Kap/Boldin tandem this coming season. However, since the 9ers are the main divisional rival for the Hawks, I hope it's not as good as the Wilson/Harvin tandem. As to the other trade, the idea of Peyton throwing to Welker makes my head hurt. I have yet to wrap my mind around it and choose to pretend it's not real- especially since they will both be wearing the hated orange jerseys.
      I would say I have a few passions in my life- my family/chosen family, my dogs (and animal rescue), and writing. My job is something that gives me the means to pursue those passions.

      1. Buck Inspire says:
        March 24, 2013 at 3:32 pm

        Gonna be an exciting year next season for most of your teams! I've been tossing this one back and forth. Love your answer, your job gives you the means to pursue your passions. I feel I am the same way. However, because we enjoy our jobs just enough, is it holding us back from pursuing our passions full force? Recently I've seen a number of bloggers leave their 9 to 5 to go into writing full time. Just wondering what you think about their situations.

        1. ErinShanendoah says:
          March 25, 2013 at 7:11 am

          Here's the thing, I LIKE going in to the office. I like the interaction with my coworkers, and, honestly, I feel more secure with the guaranteed paycheck- especially since I'm the sole earner for my family. Now, if I complete a novel and it takes off like Harry Potter or Hunger Games, I would probably quit the day job to write fiction full time (or at least manage my IP), but I'm never going to be a full time blogger. And once I admitted to myself that making money from my blogs wasn't really a goal I cared about, blogging became more fun again.

          1. Buck Inspire says:
            March 27, 2013 at 11:48 pm

            Awesome answer. Might have to try this on for size. No wonder everything seems so clear for you. Keep it up!

          2. ErinShanendoah says:
            March 28, 2013 at 7:23 am

            Remember that this is a bit like FaceBook, it only seems like everything seems so clear to me because you can only see what I am choosing to put out there. (And in this case, you're asking questions that I ask myself on a pretty regular basis.) Most of what I write about I have thought about, talked to C about, and then, just the act of writing always helps me clarify things in my head. So very little goes out for public consumption on my blogs without it having been in my head for quite some time.
            As for not making money from the blogs, that was my big take away from FinCon last year. There were all these panels on how to increase your SEO, your Google author ranking, how to sell advertising on your site, etc., and I realized that I just didn't care. I blog as an "easy" writing outlet (fiction takes much more work for me), and I realized that what I wanted to focus on in the blogs was my voice and my writing style, to have the blogs enhance my writing skills overall, and to remain a hobby.
            Sure it would be nice if they made money, but I'd rather put my efforts into the upcoming book (and probable) kickstarter) project I want to work on with an artist friend of mine.

  3. julesmelfi says:
    March 23, 2013 at 8:28 pm

    Hmm, my dog Cali is in the hospital right now with Pancreatitis 🙁 she is 14, but a healthy girl, so we are trying to stay positive. We are trying not to thing about our corporate jobs right now . .too frustrating! I hope things work out for you and your company! 🙂

    1. ErinShanendoah says:
      March 24, 2013 at 1:09 pm

      I hope Cali gets better soon. The attacks can be so scary.

  4. bringingupbella says:
    March 24, 2013 at 6:00 am

    Aw, thanks, as always, for the shout-out and mostly for the good vibes heading Bella's way. It's been a frustrating haul but I think we finally have a path to making her feel better. (Note, I did not say "fixing" her. Hrumph.)

    Thanks for the shout-outs to Bark and Chatter and Dog is God… – 2 blogs I try to follow but missed their recent health woes. Will make sure I get over and send some positive thoughts their way. (Geez, I can't imagine trying to get 4 dogs all on the same diet – Bella is sometimes more than I can handle.)

    Sorry and sympathy hugs for the work stuff. My place is insane these days as well and I'm going to go check out those money/work blogs you noted (especially the one about workplace bullies – seems especially relevant to me at the moment.) It sounds like you handle stress way better than I do. Keep it up. 🙂

    1. ErinShanendoah says:
      March 24, 2013 at 1:11 pm

      Here's hoping Bella is feeling better, and like her old crazy self in no time.

      And no worries about the job. I'm actually pretty relaxed and stress free about the whole thing.

  5. Pamela says:
    March 24, 2013 at 3:59 pm

    Lots of interesting links. I've been thinking a lot about passion lately. Someone I read recently suggested that you get your passion by doing something well. It's not just something you discovered. I think there's something to that.

    1. ErinShanendoah says:
      March 25, 2013 at 7:13 am

      I am not certain you have to be good at something to be passionate about it. I am certainly a better writer now that I was 10 years ago, and 10 years ago, I was probably a better writer than I was 10 years before that, but I've been a writer my entire life. I've been putting poems and stories down on paper since I could write, and telling them to myself even longer. Have I always been good at it? I don't know/ What I do know is that I'm a writer. I can't not do it, no matter how good (or not) I am at it.

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    March 25, 2013 at 8:33 am

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