Blog the Change: The Right Dog for the Home
Today is Blog the Change for Animals. It’s a day for us to write about animal welfare topics we are passionate about. On some level that seems silly because the main point of having my blog is to write about topics I care about. But the truth is, you mostly get the day to day stuff- diet changes, health issues, pictures from the dog park. Every once in a while something will happen and I’ll put together a post or two about topics I feel strongly about, but it’s really not that often.
In fact, I had a hard time coming up with something to write about today, despite the fact that I am passionate about a number of animal welfare issues. But then I read something over at No Dog About It that spurred a thought. First, let me say that I agree 100% with what Mel is saying- if you are not a responsible breeder, spay or neuter your pet. It is best for you and for them. And I also don’t want any of you to think I am accusing Mel of having the attitude I’m about to talk about. I doubt very much that she does. It was simply the line about not ending up with an oops pregnancy for your female dog that made me think about this.
You’ve met Copper before. Copper is my brother’s Black and Tan Coonhound/Golden Retriever mix. Well, we’re guessing on the Golden part. We know her mother was a papered, working, Coonhound. Her owner intended to breed her but made the mistake of thinking it would be safe to leave her unsupervised in his fully fenced backyard while she was in season. Hence Copper and her siblings.
There are people who don’t think my brother should have gotten Copper. There are dog bloggers out there (again, Mel is not one of them, and I’m not going to name names) who are against anyone getting a dog from a backyard breeder, from the guy in the parking lot at the grocery store, from the free to good home listing. Some think there are only two acceptable places to get a dog- a reputable breeder or the shelter. Others think the shelter is the only acceptable place to get a pet, at least while animals are still put down every year. And I have to, respectfully, disagree.
Let me be clear, all of my dogs have come from the shelter, including two purebreds. I very much doubt that we will ever get a dog not from a shelter, unless it’s taking one in for a friend/family member. But do I think my brother should be shamed for getting his puppy from an “oops” pregnancy? From a guy who was just trying to dump the puppies? Do I think my brother should have waited until this man took the puppies to the local shelter? Do we have any guarantees that that is what he would have done? This was a fairly rural area of northern NV. The puppies could easily have been dumped in the scrub. Would it really have been better for the pups for that to have happened?
Now, I know the good of the one vs the good of the many arguments, but for now, we don’t have an excess of puppies. We know this because it is not puppies being put down in shelters. You don’t walk into a shelter and find lots of puppies available for adoption. June was 6 months old when we met her, and we were simply, literally, the first people to grab someone and say- can we meet her. While we had our meet and greet with her, we were asked 5-10 times if we were going to adopt her.
The puppy supply does not meet the puppy demand. You don’t have to like that fact for it to be true. And most people who want a puppy (even if they would be better served getting an adult dog) very much want a puppy. (After Junebug, I call those people crazy.)
My brother wanted a puppy. He didn’t care about breed, but while we’d both grown up with dogs, he’d never had one that he had raised from the beginning, never had a puppy. And that’s what he wanted. (And don’t tell me it’s wrong for people to want puppies. Just look at how many kids 8 and older are available for adoption via foster care in your state, and then look at how much money people will pay to adopt an infant.)
And truth be told, Copper hit the jackpot. The guy was getting rid of the puppies as soon as they could be weaned. But Copper got to come to a house with another dog, so she still got socialization. She got to come to a home with experienced dog owners, who knew what they were getting in to. My brother has a friend who breed and trains champion hunting hounds and who was a constantly available source for specific training questions.
Copper got a fabulous family- one that would have been fabulous for any dog.
And my brother- he got exactly what he wanted, too. A dog that was his from puppyhood, a dog that he had trained, who was his baby. The hardest part about his time inAustraliawas not being away from friends and family but that Copper didn’t come with him.
Here’s the thing- people are going to get dogs, especially puppies, from lots of different places. Sometimes it will be a shelter. Sometimes it will be a reputable breeder. But more often, it will be from a listing in the paper, from the family down the street whose dog had an “oops” pregnancy. I don’t believe we should judge people by where their dog came from- not just mutt or pedigree, but “rescued” vs “bought”.
We need to judge people based on the way they are caring for their pet, for where they are now and what they are trying to be. Instead of judging people for that impulse in the parking lot to bring a cute little bundle of fuzz home, shouldn’t we instead be helping them make sure that cute little bundle of fuzz has the best life possible? Shouldn’t we be supporting them as they make training and care decisions so that when that puppy is 5 or 5 or 7 years old, it’s still exactly what the family wants?
Shouldn’t our goal be not only to make sure that every dog ends up in the right home, but that every family ends up with the right dog?
If we really want to solve our adult pet oversupply problem, we have to stop focusing on where the puppies come from and try to solve for what happens a few years later. If we honestly want our shelters to be less full, we have to focus not on where a dog comes from, but how he does in the home he’s in.
I’m not saying we will ever eliminate the need for shelters entirely, but just think about what the world could be like if we stopped caring about where someone got their puppy and instead focused on making sure that puppy grew into the right dog for that person.